Well,

today I was in phys ed and I got into a fight (verbal) with this douche guy- long story, asswhole throws the ball at my left breast(did it on purpose).- I flipped out on him and tell him to go away...

anyway, I decided not to play with guys/men anymore due to their extreme agressiveness and i don't think it's safe for me to play with them anymore since I'm on HRT, losing strenght, breasts developing etc

I noticed that they throw a football WAY TOO HARD at you!

Are men violent towards any of you women?- i don't want to play physically with them anymore...

I don't know I've played in mixed basketball leagues in university and many women throw strong too.

^ I'm not trying to stereo-type or anything because I know a lot of women that are capable of playing hard, it's just that men start getting into a fight with me whenever I play sports- this other time, this other guy tackled me down and was about to punch me when playing hockey.

I have experienced similar treatment back when I was in school and believe me when I say it was rougher back then, some would sooner put the boots to you then look at you. 5'0" tall and 100 lbs back then I was lucky I didn't go home with busted ribs.

How long until you can go full time as  Tanya hon? I would say that if the boys get to suspecting something they will get rougher. The sooner you transfer to being full time as Tanya the better. You can then get into girls phys ed have it as last class then go home to hit the shower there. It's been some years since I been in school but I believe not much has changed there through the years when it comes to aggressiveness. Wish I could be more useful to you.

Cindy

Boys are just being boys.

They are more aggressive, competitive (argumentative) and have to win at all costs, especially when it comes to spotting a weakness with an opponent (or even a team mate they dont like).

They are also generally physically more stronger and in the heat of a sporting battle this is where the combination of all the above, fuelled by the testosterone and high levels of adreneline come into there prime.

Saying that girls sport can also be competitive and I have had some bad moments playing net ball with opponents that bend the rules to their advantage.

If you can get out of playing with the boys, I would Tanya.

Rebecca

I believe that Cindy might have a workable idea.  It depends on your school and how well they will accommodate you.

Have you thought of getting a doctor's excuse to get you out of phys ed?

When I played churchyard football, eons ago as a young teenager, a well-thrown pass had a good spin on it and if caught correctly, it almost knocked the wind out of me.

There is no reason to toss a ball to hit your breast.

Get a doctor's excuse if you can.

I hope that this helps.

Wing Walker

Quote from: cindybc on November 08, 2007, 10:43:25 PM
I have experienced similar treatment back when I was in school and believe me when I say it was rougher back then, some would sooner put the boots to you then look at you. 5'0" tall and 100 lbs back then I was lucky I didn't go home with busted ribs.

How long until you can go full time as  Tanya hon? I would say that if the boys get to suspecting something they will get rougher. The sooner you transfer to being full time as Tanya the better. You can then get into girls phys ed have it as last class then go home to hit the shower there. It's been some years since I been in school but I believe not much has changed there through the years when it comes to aggressiveness. Wish I could be more useful to you.

Cindy

Well full time- I'm going to go in about 1 1/2 to 2 yrs. Recently people are becoming a bit suspecting- mostly women and some men. I weigh around 116 lbs and 5 6'' tall- not the kind of body you really want to have playing football.

But honestly many guys are cool with me and don't have a problem- had many male friends but not anymore because my interests are totally different. Put it this way- I have male friends but I don't really hang out with them.



Posted on: November 09, 2007, 05:52:44 PM

---

Quote from: Wing Walker on November 08, 2007, 11:47:28 PM
I believe that Cindy might have a workable idea.  It depends on your school and how well they will accommodate you.

Have you thought of getting a doctor's excuse to get you out of phys ed?

When I played churchyard football, eons ago as a young teenager, a well-thrown pass had a good spin on it and if caught correctly, it almost knocked the wind out of me.

There is no reason to toss a ball to hit your breast.

Get a doctor's excuse if you can.

I hope that this helps.

Wing Walker

My god-this one guy who although was cool threw the ball WAY to hard.

I don't need a doc's excuse or need to change phys ed classes because my classes are mixed genders.

All I really need to do is stop playing with some men.- that's all.

Hi Tanya1, you should know better than anyone about the environment you live in, both at school, the general public and at home. It is not necessary for you to reveal anything to anyone that you don't feel comfortable with. but please just be careful and be alert and inform the right people about anything that might appear underhanded or wrong. There were no such people I could go to when I was a kid.

Cindy

I never played sport at school......but I did do long distance running and was very good at it....I wonder why?

Hi Berliegh
Well at school I could run like the wind when I had bullies chasing me but couldn't run worth a crap on a track. My best defence was in my ability to run when I was charged full of adrenaline I could run, literally, like a scared jack rabbit. Another of my famous tricks was if I could get my back side over the fence and into the bush they could look for me during the entire recess and not find me. Sometimes they came within only half a dozen feet from me and they couldn't see me. "Hee, hee" I could disappear while standing in one place on the sidewalk down town. Good trick, especially when you didn't want certain people to see you.  Oh yes I wasn't only weird because of GID either.

Cindy

Quote from: Tanya1 on November 08, 2007, 03:47:02 PM
Well,

today I was in phys ed and I got into a fight (verbal) with this douche guy- long story, asswhole throws the ball at my left breast(did it on purpose).- I flipped out on him and tell him to go away...

anyway, I decided not to play with guys/men anymore due to their extreme agressiveness and i don't think it's safe for me to play with them anymore since I'm on HRT, losing strenght, breasts developing etc

I noticed that they throw a football WAY TOO HARD at you!

Are men violent towards any of you women?- i don't want to play physically with them anymore...

Not all men are dumb, but SPORTS are beyond the word. Get some mad hobbies.