I was a brownie and girl scout. I liked the camping and that sort of thing. My mom was a girl scout leader and did try to socialize me with "charm school", I believe that was a low point. But I liked the very many less gendered activities.
BTW, the GSA and BSA are totally different types of organizations. GSA is very LGBT friendly and has admitted trans girl scouts, and is openly accepting of lesbians as leaders and troop members. TMK, the BSA is not and barely is accepting of gay boys due to it being quite a right wing group.
--Jay