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I'm in tears (of joy)

Started by KylieW, May 02, 2015, 02:27:17 AM

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KylieW

So, I decided to tell me best friend that I'm transgender. She's someone that I've never kept secrets from (well, except for one) and since I've come to terms that I'm Trans it has been eating away at me. Hilariously enough, the night before I called her, she had a dream in which I was a girl!

I was terrified of telling her. I didn't know her views on Transgenders but she was instantly accepting. She said she's going to start doing some reading to understand what I'm going through and help me. Even typing this up I'm starting to tear up again. It's so liberating to have someone to share this with, a shoulder to cry on now.

After I told her, we talked for hours. Sometimes we talked about me being trans, then other topics, then back to trans. It felt completely natural.  I feel like our relationship has gotten deeper than ever.

I'm floored how great she's taking all this. And now I have a girl coach to help me learn the finer points of being female when I'm finally in position to begin my transition.

I gotta stop here, I'm starting to cry too hard to see now. I haven't felt this happy in years. My face actually hurts from smiling so much!
-A MtF bisexual unable to start journey due to military.
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Cindy

That is wonderful Kylie. I am so happy for you. :-*
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Mariah

Congrats Kylie. It's wonderful to hear that she is so supportive. Good luck and Hugs
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Devlyn

Fantastic! I recently came out to my sisters and was immediately accepted too. I'm really happy for you!

Hugs, Devlyn
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rosetyler

That is so awesome!!  Congrats!
Be yourself.  Everyone else is already taken.   :)
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KylieW

Thanks guys. :D We've been talking sooooo much more now. It's a huge relief to finally have someone I can vent to when things get rough. I've known her for almost a decade now, but our friendship has gotten so much closer and deeper that it absolutely blows my mind every time I think about it. Even now, almost two weeks later I still can't help but smile when I think how amazing she is.

I even built up enough courage to tell one other friend who lives a lot closer (the first friend lives over a thousand miles away) and she's been great as well. Since I can't transition yet, having two people that I can lean on and trust implicitly has been a huge help mentally. It doesn't feel like I'm so alone anymore.

I think I can finally hold out until I can talk to the ship's psycho about everything. Before, I felt like I was going to blow up.
-A MtF bisexual unable to start journey due to military.
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katrinaw

Great news Kylie and awesome that you have a kindred spirit to help and support you.
You can now further enjoy your journey  :-*

L Katy
Long term MTF in transition... HRT since ~ 2003...
Journey recommenced Sept 2015  :eusa_clap:... planning FT 2016  :eusa_pray:

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Live life, embrace life and love life xxx
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traci_k

So wonderful to hear good news. Thanks for sharing!
Traci Melissa Knight
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bamar86

Oh wow kylie that's great news. I really needed to read this, this morning. It even made me smile reading it. I was also surprised about my mums reaction going so well. And I had to ease her into it with a bunch of trans documentaries. .

Chloe
Started HRT in December 2014

Had ffs with Dr rossi September 2015

Srs and BA dr chettawut Feb 27 2016
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Valwen

its really amazing what even one person who knows and is willing to listen can do for your peace of mind.
What is a Lie when it's at home? Anyone?
Is it the depressed little voice inside? Whispering in my ear? Telling me to give up?
Well I'm not giving up. Not for that part of me that hates myself. That part wants me to wither and die. not for you. Never for you.  --Loki: Agent of Asgard

Started HRT Febuary 21st 2015
First Time Out As Myself June 8th 2015
Full Time June 24th 2015
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Anastazja

This is such fantastic news, I am so happy for you!!  Having someone in your life who can guide you through the finer points of transition is an absolute blessing.  Can't wait to hear more on how it is going!!
Peace and love:  Everybody gets the hug!!!
Peace and love:  Everybody have the high-fives and cakes!!
Peace and love:  I want the cheese for breakfast!!
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Rachel

Congratulations, I am happy for you.
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