Hey
I am a male-to-female transgender and I'm looking for any tips on tucking... I usually fail at it.
When I am wearing a tight pencil skirt, I usually get away by wearing those body forming panties. Actually they are for making a better shape of your belly (they're high waist), but because of that they hide my private parts. Nevertheless it isn't thaaat comfortable. The main problem is, that the fabric stripe on the bottom is too narrow for my private parts. I kind of "squeeze" them to my back and the pants hold them. But because it's so narrow, my testicles "ooze out" on the sides... and the edges cut into my skin, which isn't really nice...
So I'm looking for a solution that is more for everyday...

Of course I searched on the internet, but the two solutions are either with tape, which I just don't want to do, or by the "push your testicles into the place they usually came from"-method. But that doesn't work for me either, because... It's hard to get them into that place, and when they are there, you can still totally see some bulges, so it is flat in no case.

So I need a solution that just... holds my private parts back there. I tried some of those gaffs you can buy online, but they weren't really that great... I also tried to cut and resew some men's briefs, so they will hold my private parts back... that was the most useful solution yet. But I still have no perfect model and because I have to cut some part of the briefs away, there isn't enough fabric on the edges and they cut into my behind and part each cheeks in two -.-
I also tried the method, where you use the waistband of some underwear with a tube, that you cut off a pair of socks... also doesn't really work...

I know I won't find anything which is 100% comfortable. But isn't there any method, which will hide my private parts without cutting into them, without me having to rearrange them all the time, and which will make my front just flat?

I hope you can help me out...
Thank you for reading my post ^^
Omnom

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Mariah


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I found by trial and error that wearing two pairs of panties helps. I also found by more trial and error by wearing cheerleader panties (originally part of a costume, but now I have several of them) over regular panties (bikini or brief) really does the job. It stays put for me.

It actually makes sense though. Cheerleaders end up in very compromising positions. Those panties are designed to cover, however by themselves they aren't good enough.

You could have a look here:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=180972.0

all at your own risk


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Micropore medical tape (5cm/2inch wide) ... I prearrange 3 strips into triangular shape on the table, turn it around and put smaller triangular cut of thin toilet paper in the middle (because I care about my donor skin material). It works for me... nothing else did.

This worked for me:

I pushed the boys into the cavity above the scrotum. Once I'd been on hrt for awhile and had some shrinkage, I was able to stuff them all the way into the inguinal canals, but nestling them in the cavity worked ok. Then I'd point the shaft backward. I'd use two pairs of part-spandex panties about a size too small to keep everything in place.

Once I did this, I looked for all the world like I had a female bottom, even if I stripped down to my panties.

Even 5 months later I still can't do that.

I can do it correctly, I just find no point in it so I don't really tuck anymore

Quote from: awilliams1701 on May 03, 2015, 05:16:13 PM
Even 5 months later I still can't do that.

Right?! I've been on HRT for almost a year and a half, and I can't do it, either! Besides, if I even so much as just tuck my penis under my balls, it ends up smelling like a four-cheese pizza!

Someday I'll get my surgery, and I won't have to worry about this anymore.

look into a trans scrotal piercing:)  takes a year to fit to where you forget you did it and wake up still tucked the next day.  thats naked too:)  before my orch, the hrt did some shrinking on the round things and they hid up in those canals.  then placing my penis tucked away in the scrotum, it kept them pushed up.  was sore like srs for a few months, but now feels great.  like having both genders, this way i can be happy and so can my wife;)

Quote from: awilliams1701 on May 03, 2015, 05:16:13 PM
Even 5 months later I still can't do that.

Cyproterone acetate

Like I said earlier, I found a method that works.

I guess it depends on how much one needs to get out of the way. I'm a member of the itsy-bitsy-teeny-weinie club so it's probably a bit easier than for some. I use a gaff - I've ordered several and they do a pretty good job. Since the one's I have are essentially thongs/g-strings I wear them over a pair of basic but tight knickers so they don't go into my butt. I usually wear a nice pair of knickers over the top. Looks nice,  no "bump" and not uncomfortable (even in summer). It really does the job!! 

My method worked pre and post HRT and HRT shrank it quite a bit.

Due to scar tissue from 'corrective' surgery when I was young tucking didn't work for me and taping was downright painful.  Good firm well covering knickers and sensible choices with the kind of clothes I wore were my only real solutions.  Of course once I had my orchi done everything was just fine.

My testes shrunk considerably after about a year and a half but not the penis so even though that part hasn't shrunk at all 3 years in, wearing tight pants or tight underwear smooths everything out without tucking. There is a bulge but its a lady bulge (camel toe) if that makes sense, it just looks like I have a large labia. I find boy shorts work the best or bikini styles.

I usually do Ashley's method, but I tuck by pushing my testes back, and then pulling my penis back as far as I possibly can, and then pulling two pairs of underwear over them really snugly. It was a little uncomfortable at first but...I got used to it!

Tape it, I did it for years, no damage was done and with a bit of looking after myself down there I could go 24 hours without an issue

Before HRT I taped it too, worked well, no long term harm; about ~ 3 years on HRT, just a close fitting pair of undies works for me... little marbles are deep-seated now, only need careful adjustments with very tight (skinny) jeans, but once settled its all cool.

For me that was and is...

L Katy

A tight pair of panties has always gotten the job for me but ten I have always been small down there so I have never needed to tuck as a result.
Mariah