I want to take steps to start transitioning and beginning HRT and top surgery. I was hoping some people in Ohio could recommend a counselor/therapist that I could go to that would be able to quickly get me signed papers to prescribe treatment. I don't want to walk into a session just to waste my money and find out the counselor I chose is a gatekeeper or not trans friendly. Also did a lot of you have to go out of your network health insurance to find the right person? I'd prefer to be in network if possible but I'm wondering if that's pretty slim considering there might not be a lot of people who look after people who are transgender. Feelings of depression and dysphoria have been overwhelming and I need to see someone ASAP and get treatment before I go off the deep end.
EDIT: Also the Ohio Declaration of Gender Change form, would I need to bring that to my therapy session so I change my gender marker on my ID? What kind of paperwork would they provide me to change my passport and social security card gender marker?
EDIT2: I'm in the Toledo/BG area so near there is preferred, but I'll take recommendations anywhere in Ohio or maybe even southern Michigan.
EDIT3: Can just about any counselor/therapist give me a prescription for T/surgery, even if they don't specifically cater to transgender individuals? I'm finding most trans friendly ones are at least 2 hours away and I don't know if I have the funds for all of that travel.