Well my father caught wind that I am transgender and now wants nothing to do with me. SO I have to move to Texas to live with my mom. I feel like my life is out of control right now, but hopefully if I can find a doctor there this will be just the push I need to start moving towards becoming independent from both of my parents and starting to live my own life.

Paige I'm so sorry to hear you got kicked out. I can only hope living with your mom will allow you to be your authentic self freely. Good luck and Hugs
Mariah

Sorry to hear he can't bring himself to be more accepting. Let us know what area of Texas you're headed to, and maybe someone can chime in with recommendations for doctors, therapists, etc.

I'm sorry you had to experience that, rejection sucks. Especially when you're rejected by someone you thought cared for you. I'm happy you can find light in the dark, though. Stay positive, don't be swayed by others. You are who you are, and that's all you can ever be.

~Maddy

So very sorry that has happened, but it might work out better if your mother is more open to you being trans. I could never understand how any parent could throw their child out - I hope your father sees the error of his ways at some point.

I'm sorry this happened! Crossing my fingers that things will settle for you and you can move forward soon! Hugs

Your father is a bimbo. I hope Texas will treat you well! What city or town will you go to?

Just because someone is blood does not mean they are good for you or your life. If his love is so weak that he'd rather sever his relationship to you than be accepting if not indeed supportive of what will be no doubt a difficult and confusing time in your life, then bye bye.

Your dad sucks! HE should be the one to have to live in Texas! Where are you now, and what part of Texas are you going to?

Sorry to hear about your dad.

My dad doesn't talk to me right now so I can relate. He may not talk to me ever again so I'm prepared for that.

Give him some time and space. Maybe eventually he'll come around. Or maybe not.

In either case your mom supports you and you can live your life.

Good luck in Texas. I love Texas.

Paige... I am sending you so much love and as many hugs as the internet can hold right now; that is quite a rough situation. I am so glad that you can at least be safe with your mom, though I can imagine that things still hurt so much right now. We are all here for you, and I'm sure that many people on this site will be able to help you out once you get settled in Texas. I am sure things must feel like they're spinning out of control right now, but I promise everything will be okay, eventually. Especially if you have a good support system in your mom; don't be afraid to lean on her. <3 I had to cut ties with my dad completely, so if you need to vent or anything of the sort, I'm here for that, too.

I'm really sorry to hear about this.
Falling out with a parent is gut wrentching & no-one deserves to go through it. Give it time & he may get over his initial feelings.

You're lucky to have a supportive mum, pre-transition my mum was just my mum (but still amazing), now that i've been on HRT for a year & a half with her support she's not only my mum but my best friend too.
Hopefully this time with your mum will make your relationship with her stronger

I'm sorry this happened. Its been rough on two of my sisters. It sounds like your mom is more accepting though. I would focus on that. I've been focusing on the good news and not the bad news (which fortunately there hasn't been much of).

I am sorry that happened to you. I hope your Mom is accepting and everything works out.

sorry this happened. It's truly sad that someone who brought you into the word doesn't accept you. I hope you'll be ok.

((all the hugs))

Hang in there, alright? If he can't accept you for who you are, then HE doesn't deserve YOU. I hope things are better with your mom.

with love,
Alex

Hus, your dad sounds like a jerk right now, but maybe he'll come around, if he doesn't, he's not interfering with your life anymore. I think you will be okay if mom is supportive and you live in (or close to) a big city.  If you live in rural east Texas, I feel sorry for you, but it will be better than living with your dad.

Thanks for all the love and support! Good news my dad changed his mind and said that he would rather have me as a daughter than lose me all together so now I don't need to move to Texas

Lots of Love
--Paige

Quote from: paige_the_paige on May 15, 2015, 12:47:03 PM
... Good news my dad changed his mind and said that he would rather have me as a daughter than lose me all together so now I don't need to move to Texas ...

OMG that's wonderful news! I'm so happy for you honey!

Yay, Congrats. I'm so happy to hear he changed your mind and is willing to accept you as his daughter. Hugs
Mariah

Quote from: paige_the_paige on May 15, 2015, 12:47:03 PM
Thanks for all the love and support! Good news my dad changed his mind and said that he would rather have me as a daughter than lose me all together so now I don't need to move to Texas

Lots of Love
--Paige