Quote from: ChiGirl on April 24, 2015, 06:29:26 PM
Starting a new thread. Such an honor. That makes me happy.
Also, I had my first laser hair treatment AND I got new glasses! I'm a happy girl! Although my face doesn't show it.

And weirdly, the sales girl mentioned that something with my eyes was something "a lot of guys get. Well, a lot of people." it was so weird that like she was correcting herself. I was total guy mode, but it felt like I was giving something out there. I don't know, but it felt goooooood. [emoji1]
That's so awesome! I've had experiences as well in which I was presenting completely male, and it really seemed that people picked up on my identity due to femininity I must have exuded without trying. The thing that made my very own day today was that my friends and I got carded while buying alcohol at a local store. The clerk asked for all of our ID's, which is always hard for me, because "old me" is still on there (I looked hyper-masculine back in high school whenever my license picture was taken).
The clerk said -- in reference to me -- "I'm going to keep her license for a second to type in the date since she's the youngest." Then, she just gave it back to me. So, I totally didn't expect that. She was an older woman, so I wouldn't necessarily expect her to gender me as female upon learning that I'm "male", thanks to my ID photo. I'm kind of thinking that my effeminate appearance has become so overpowering that people can't control referring to me by feminine pronouns. It made my day so much.
Similarly, I recently had to provide my legal name for an employment training seminar, and the woman inferred that I must be "male" because of my name, and the fact that I checked the box on the application that said "male". So, whenever referring to me, she kept calling me "he", but it was only because she was correcting myself after accidentally calling me "she". I explained to her afterwards that I could essentially get murdered if someone learns I'm trans, so please always gender someone based off of their presentation. But, over all, this situation made my day too.