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jamela · May 16, 2015, 04:29:46 PM

Hi
I'm Jamela. 37 y old from East Africa living in Norway. I have always been a cd. since I was 12,with quite a femine thin body but in those 5 years things went so fast. I didn't come out yet, but transitioning is becoming so obsessive to me. I have always thought that I was heterosexual but now I start to appreciate men and even getting excited. The only thing is that all this thing seems unstopable and very fast. I wonder where I'm going?

Ms Grace · May 16, 2015, 04:35:03 PM

Hey Jamela

Welcome to Susan's

Great to have you here - looking forward to seeing you around the forum.

Please check out the following links for general site info...

Cheers

Grace

Mariah · May 16, 2015, 04:48:04 PM

Hi Jamela, welcome to Susan's. I look forward to seeing you around the site. Good luck and Hugs
Mariah

katrinaw · May 16, 2015, 05:42:00 PM

Welcome to Susan's Jamela

Happy that you have found us, look forward to seeing you about the forums.

L Katy

V M · May 16, 2015, 07:10:52 PM

Hi Jamela

Welcome to Susan's

Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Hugs

V M

Rachel · May 16, 2015, 08:15:05 PM

Welcome to Susan's.

LordKAT · May 17, 2015, 04:22:39 AM

Welcome to Susan's.

As to wondering where you are going, remember it is the journey that forms us.

SophiaW · May 18, 2015, 02:40:24 AM

Hi Jamela, and great to know you are taking the first steps on your road.

Read other articles in the forum, and ask. You are amongst friends here.
When you feel the time is right, go to a local Doctor and discuss it with them, and if they are good, they will take you further.

Welcome!

Laura_7 · May 18, 2015, 08:06:59 AM

You could have a look here and the link there:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,188309.msg1674885.html#msg1674885

and keep asking questions, alone writing often helps.

Don't be scared. Its a step by step process, many have done it and succeeded, take the time you need but keep at it.
People here will try to support you.

You might for example ask with local lgbt or trans people organizations how this all is organized in norway.
If there are specialized gender therapists, or gender centers etc.
And there might be helplines for transgender people.

hugs

Nickywhat · May 18, 2015, 11:49:53 AM

Welcome to Susan's! I'm a newcomer here as well, but just like joining this website, coming out is something we all eventually do. Regardless if it's simply coming out to friends/family or if you're coming to terms with yourself about these new changes, there will always be someone out there that can relate and be helpful! I have to agree that is kinda becomes a snowball effect, mixing excitement with nervousness (and other emotions!) and just seem to explode ( in my case implode) all lat once. I wish you the best as you take the steps and path to becoming the person YOU want (and feel comfortable with) :]

Have a Lovely Day!

gennee · May 19, 2015, 06:48:16 PM

Welcome to Susan's, Jamela.

jamela · May 20, 2015, 09:38:35 AM

Thank you all sisters. I m very happy to join you. Thank you for the warm wellcame

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