Hi,
How about asking them for a letter stating information on you. Time spent in therapy, time started hormones, etc, etc, etc. The letter could have impact in one of two ways. First they will think you are lining them up for a lawsuit, and will grant your GRS

. If not, You might be able to use this as a way to get a referal with only a couple of hours with someone to confirm what the letter and you are saying.
I had done the 3 months required and had 1 letter. Fastforward 4 years I needed the second letter and sent the information to someone, made a app and got "rubber stamped" for the second letter. The person had met me a couple of times prior, as a friend had went there, and I went along for the ride. If you have contacts in the U.S or Canada perhaps they know friendly and sympathic doctors willing to do this. Letters from a couple of friends about you also. Theres some logistics to work out, but it could work. It's not like your doing something wrong, you just want to get out of limbo.
Jennifer