"If YOU'RE not atracted to the opposite gender how do you feel being checked out?"Hello ladies, this is my first post and I just had to register and respond because this is SO my kinda topic I couldn't resist responding! (If I'm supposed to do something before posting in actual threads, lemme know!)
Ok SO! I have two responses to this question because my reactions have evolved over the years based on my own confidence, which took a drastic change for the better when I started going to group this year - which was one of the main reasons I finally sought out help.
So anyways like I was SAYING, pre-therapy/group I was very insecure about my fem presentation so I thought any attention was getting me spotted. As a result, I got EXTREMELY nervous and didn't know how to react. Scared even. During this period I wouldn't even speak because I feared my voice to be a dead give away. So being checked out or hit on... was a nightmare.
Well girls, lemme tell ya.. times are ah CHANGING on this subject RAPIDLY for me. After a lot... no seriously A LOT... like tons of direct and indirect comments... of positive affirmation from my beloved fellow T-sisters (and IRL GGfriends who love going out together when I'm in femme mode) to truly appreciate being checked out because it means I'm passing with a vengeance. Sometimes I'll dress for it and it comes by the bucket loads with a healthy amount of hit-ons - girls looking on enviously and guys a staring (especially the brothers, it's true they like tall blonds LOL). Other times I dress to blend in and and I'm still getting constant check outs.
Needless to say now, I frigging love it! Hell yeah check me out. You know you frigging want it, cuz baby, I got it GOING ON!
I also work out 4-5 days a week for 1-2 hours, so yeah, I want them to be drooling over my racehorse legs!
KaCHOW!
