So I am curious, if you are male to female, what male parts of your body bother you the most. I may be a minority here because mine is not the penis, it is the arms, shoulders, and chest. Breasts are not a big deal to me. I know there is more to being femella (I like the latin root of female better than the English word) than having big boobies. The arms I am concerned about because I don't think surgery or hormone replacement therapy will be able to help with that. Surgery can help feminize the face, so that is not a big deal to me. Hormones can help give me curves and if that doesn't work, surgery can give me a big beautiful ghetto booty. I think one advantage M to F have over genetic femellas is that we have longer legs.
I'm also curious about female to male transgendered people on this question. Many M to F's are anxious to get rid of their penis but I'm not seeing F to M's obsessing over having a penis. Maybe they are but not as expressive about it?