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What Made You Both Happy and Unhappy at the Same Time Today? 2.0

Started by V M, January 06, 2015, 02:32:09 PM

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LordKAT

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Cindy

I had an odd experience. I got a phone call from the Equal Opportunity people at the University I teach at. They asked if I could be a counsellor or ALLY for gender diverse people. They have several. They asked me because they had heard I was an out and about transexual woman and my name keep coming up. (That was the bad, who has been talking! :laugh:). They told me they had a young TG man who wanted some advice, would I be willing to talk to them.

I informed my staff that we may get visits from GD people and to just guide them to me.

An hour later a young (18yr old) very nervous closeted transman arrived in my lab. He was quite taken by the easy going attitude of my staff, both men and women, to me. (They completely accept me and are totally disrespectful in the easy going way that friends are.)

We talked, or rather he did and after a while began to relax and realised that no one cared what gender he was.

As he was leaving one of my guys, a young man of about 25 asked if he wanted a coffee and to get away from all these crazy women. (I told you they were respectful!).

After an hour or so, my staff guy came back. I asked how it went. 'We talked about footy and cars, I thought he may like to talk guy stuff rather than don't worry stuff.'

For some reason I felt rather proud.



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stephaniec

you must feel good being in a position to help. The pain we go through in life, I wish I had help growing up.
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V M

A bit silly LOL...

Can't remember quite who had brought it up or when but I thought I'd tried the popular spread Nutella when I younger but couldn't quite remember that either

So anyway, I noticed that it had gone on sale at the local market and set out to pick up a jar

To my dismay the shelf was empty  :-\  There were other brands available but they were more expensive and contained more preservatives and came with a disclosure that other types of nuts may be used as well

Looking up with my hands out and sighing "Why" I noticed that there was one jar up on the top of the shelving were the overstock is placed

So, not only did I get my Nutella, I got the last jar available  8)  I happily made my way to the checkout stand

Mmmmmmm, tasty stuff  :)
The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


- V M
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Cindy

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Dee Marshall

April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!

Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.

They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
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V M

The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


- V M
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Dee Marshall

Quote from: V M on June 08, 2015, 08:12:43 AM
Nutella
I stand partially corrected, Italy rather than Belgium. In any case, blame Europe, not America. Although I do love the stuff!
April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!

Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.

They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
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V M

A bit silly, I was actually a rather apprehensive to try it for awhile just in case I didn't like it, but when it went on sale my curiosity got the best of me and I'm glad it did  ;D 
The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


- V M
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LordKAT

I also love the stuff, it is chocolate nuts, kind of like me.
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Katiepie

So for the past two days I've been painting my nails, at work it's been complements like crazy, to the point to where this one elder lady admitted to me that she paints her husband's toe nails, and others that have had the same color were totally calling us twins. But then today a flamboyant gay boy was hitting on me, I was kinda afraid to tell him that I was trans, and really not a guy, but then I ended up just letting it go, just kinda letting it pass.

Let's all climb aboard the choo choo train to happiness
Kate♥
My life motto: Wake Up and BE Awesome!

"Every minute of your life that you allow someone to dictate your emotions, is a minute of your life you are allowing them to control you." - a dear friend of mine.

Stay true to yourself no matter the consequence, for this is your life, your decision, your trust in which will shape your future. Believe in yourself, if you don't then no one will.
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Cindy

Quote from: LordKAT on June 09, 2015, 12:55:56 AM
I also love the stuff, it is chocolate nuts, kind of like me.

I think I'll pass on that one! ::)

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Jenny07

I love your work Cindy. So fantastic.
You must be a happy little vegemite.

I wish I had a fiend like you.

Looking in the mirror today. 70% non male make me feel so happy.
Now dealing with the 100% terror.
So long and thanks for all the fish
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iKate

Happy: I'm going to Seoul in a couple weeks to fix my voice which has been causing me so much distress

Unhappy: off my hormones, passport is still male. Hoping I don't get misgendered too much.
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V M

Yesterday I was remembering the great innovator and icon, Lester William Polsfuss's (aka Les Paul) 100 year birthday

(June 9, 1915 – August 12, 2009) RIP   
The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


- V M
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Lynne

Found a great looking pair of high heeled shoes today which fits me quite well(which is rare) and I had to restrain myself from buying them because I should save the money towards the more expensive parts of my transition.
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RavenL

Happy yummy pizza I had for dinner.

Unhappy people tailgating and driving crazy.






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Cindy

Quote from: Jenny07 on June 10, 2015, 06:15:13 AM
I love your work Cindy. So fantastic.
You must be a happy little vegemite.

I wish I had a fiend like you.

Looking in the mirror today. 70% non male make me feel so happy.
Now dealing with the 100% terror.

But you do have a fiend like me! A very dear fiend :-*

You also have a friend who cares for you :icon_flower: :icon_hug:
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RavenL

Happy, Coming home from work and putting on my normal clothes!

Unhappy, Getting really mad at work today and letting the "other one" come out. Its still bothering me right now and I went two weeks without getting mad. Really feel like having a good cry about now.






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Sydney_NYC

(This happened yesterday)

My wife and I went to Yardhouse for dinner which is normally very good. My wife has dairy allergies which normally isn't a problem there but for some reason they forgot to make enough dairy free bread that day. The waitress and the kitchen couldn't get it right and by the time they figured out a substitute bread (wheat bread) 45 minutes had passed and my food and some of her food was getting cold sitting in the kitchen. The manager apologized for the mess-up and not only did they remake the our dished he comped the entire meal because he felt so bad about our experience.
Sydney





Born - 1970
Came Out To Self/Wife - Sept-21-2013
Started therapy - Oct-15-2013
Laser and Electrolysis - Oct-24-2013
HRT - Dec-12-2013
Full time - Mar-15-2014
Name change  - June-23-2014
GCS - Nov-2-2017 (Dr Rachel Bluebond-Langner)


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