I try to be... thank you very much I truly appreciate all the posts... I'm like a broken record with my friends I don't want to drive them anymore nuts with this they hear it 247 and I was worried maybe they are biased but yeah... thank you again

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Quote from: Jake25 on June 19, 2015, 06:48:11 PM
Find someone that is attracted to you and likes your personality, try a pansexual or bisexual.

I think I'm gonna just get my shift together and be a lone wolf for a bit... if it happens it happens.. thank you very much also... my name is Jake too  cyber high five

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Quote from: RaptorChops on June 19, 2015, 07:03:16 PM
You don't need to be with anyone. You need to learn to love yourself first before you try and love another.  I haven't had a real girlfriend in about 4 years (I'm 30 years old) lol. I'm just learning to love who I am, loving my new body, loving the small amount of facial hair that's growing. Work on yourself and you will feel 100% better.

Yes I feel this is more along the lines of what I'm going to do... she doesn't care... we work together and Wednesday was my birthday  and she didn't even say happy birthday or get me anything... I don't need that... thank you for the advise I appreciate it a lot

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Jake, don't be so down on yourself.  I was cheated on by 2 of my 5 exs, (all straight girls).  At the time, I thought I was gonna be alone for a long time, I happened to met my now wife who was self identified as a lesbian.  She just happens to be attracted to the way I was.  Although I wasn't transitioning then, I was pretty up front with her that how I feel about my gender.  The right person will come at the most unexpected time, when you're not looking for one. 

Jack

Jack,
I'm glad to see you are seeing some sense, but being alone for a little bit doesnt mean you'd be alone forever. You'll find someone who trully appreciates you and show you how presious you are. You need to stay away from destructive people like her. We already have enough issues in our heads with how confusing the transition and accepting it is.
Learn to be by yourself and find yourself and then you'll find the one that sees your worth


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So just an update... we talked... she told me pretty much me not having the correct parts after 5 years is what's wrong and that she wants a real man... so 5 years down the drain on something she knew about from the begining... this sucks... but I thought I'd fill in everyone who was trying to help... thank you all

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So sorry to hear that happened. Hugs
Mariah


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Quote from: crzysftballgrl3 on June 23, 2015, 12:21:21 PM
So just an update... we talked... she told me pretty much me not having the correct parts after 5 years is what's wrong and that she wants a real man... so 5 years down the drain on something she knew about from the begining... this sucks... but I thought I'd fill in everyone who was trying to help... thank you all

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Have a big *hug*

You are a man... just relax... there are people out there who like you as you are.

Well if you look around people have changed a lot the last years... I'd say many in general being more open...
so this should be in your favour...
just take the time you need...
you will find someone who likes you in time...

if you need it talk to a friend...
or call or chat on one of the helplines...
glnh.org/talkline for example

do a few things you like (within reason)...

and there are people out there who will really like you for who you are

hugs

Quote from: Laura_7 on June 23, 2015, 12:44:24 PM
Have a big *hug*

You are a man... just relax... there are people out there who like you as you are.

Well if you look around people have changed a lot the last years... I'd say many in general being more open...
so this should be in your favour...
just take the time you need...
you will find someone who likes you in time...

if you need it talk to a friend...
or call or chat on one of the helplines...
glnh.org/talkline for example

do a few things you like (within reason)...

and there are people out there who will really like you for who you are

hugs

Thank you very much

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Don't sweat it man, the right one will find u! 

Sorry to hear this is happening to you, man. It must be hard to hear that coming from your girlfriend. However, this part caught my eye.

Quoteso 5 years down the drain on something she knew about from the begining...

Down the drain? What? I never get it when people say that after a relationship ends. It is like all those good memories all of a sudden turn into bad ones or are wiped from existence. You had a good run, no? 5 whole years to enjoy your life with someone else and all the benefits that come with it. Treasure that instead of seeing it as wasted.

Quote from: Mr.X on June 24, 2015, 04:17:57 AM
Down the drain? What? I never get it when people say that after a relationship ends. It is like all those good memories all of a sudden turn into bad ones or are wiped from existence. You had a good run, no? 5 whole years to enjoy your life with someone else and all the benefits that come with it. Treasure that instead of seeing it as wasted.

Agreed!  Each of my past relationships help shape the person I am today.

I'm sorry to hear about your experience Jake, that really sucks.  You're much better off without her.  You seem like a nice guy and you can do a lot better.

Getting it together and being a lone wolf is great.  It's good for the soul - well it's good for my soul anyway.  You get to focus on what you really want in life.