My hair is a complete mess and I have no clue what to do with it. I think my hair is in one of the so called "awkward phases" and it looks awful. I'm trying to get a job right now so I have to be at least kind of presentable as a boy but if I look too boyish I get pretty bad disphoria so I need some help.

Have you tried slicking it back? That's what I do. The awkward stage is really when it ceases to look like a normal guy's haircut, but can't pull it into a ponytail...

Hi Paige, welcome to Susan's. I agree with Veronica I would slick it back for the moment. I look forward to seeing you around the forums. Good luck and hugs
Mariah

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Thanks for the replies ! What would you recommend slicking it back with?