I still present as male most days, I read as male 100% of the time anyway, and I've got some burly cyclist calves. But we've been having a heat wave, so I've been rocking short shorts & smooth legs. Short skirts yes, minishorts yes, miniskirts, not yet. But stilettos are right out; I'd just feel silly.
I see no reason to pay attention to stereotypes. I'm dressing more femme now than I really identify with, because it takes a bit extra to overcome the dysphoria. Since I'm not passing anyway, I might as well have fun with it.