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A Question For The Unemployed

Started by Leki, July 09, 2015, 03:33:28 AM

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Leki

What do you do with all your time?

Do you aim to go back to employment?
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Nicole

while I'm not working full time anymore, I owned and ran a photo lab for a few years and sold it last year for a nice profit, I bought a 3rd house, moved into that, and rent out my old one for $400 a week & the old apartment I rent out for $600 a week, I don't work other than a photo shoot once a week.
One of my best friends doesn't work, the other owns her own store as well, so I get to spend a lot of time with them, I do a lot of hobby photography in, I catch up with friends, I run every day.

Yes! I'm single
And you'll have to be pretty f'ing amazing to change that
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FreyasRedemption

What do I do with my time?
I do things with my family, mainly my little brother and dogs. I read, I watch movies, I go outside to the forest when it rains since there is nobody else out then, plus I love rain. I've also started writing. And the best thing of all, I finally get to sleep for long enough. In other words, now I have time to live.
As for employment......no. Just no, I was employed once and never will be again. It's literally one of the most traumatic experiences of my life. Eight hours, doing unpleasant and boring things, just waiting for the clock to hit four so I get back home, and after that, so tired that I couldn't do anything but sit down and watch TV.
Plus, I'm very uncomfortable with the whole capitalistic society. Why do I have to pay money for food, water, and a roof over my head? That food is mass-produced, the water still has traces from chemicals after a thousand purifications, and I own the house if I live in it. Is it so wrong that I refuse to make more money for the people who already have so much more than they deserve?
There is a better tomorrow.
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katrinaw

Quote from: Leki on July 09, 2015, 03:33:28 AM
What do you do with all your time?

Spent last winter as a Ski bum/bummess in one of Australia's best ski seasons. Oct to February relaxed and bought clothes for the summer, hobby photography. February till now job/role hunting...
QuoteDo you aim to go back to employment?

Yes! need "mucho dinero"...can't continue transitioning anymore without!


Katy xx
Long term MTF in transition... HRT since ~ 2003...
Journey recommenced Sept 2015  :eusa_clap:... planning FT 2016  :eusa_pray:

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Live life, embrace life and love life xxx
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HourGlass2B

Quote from: FreyasRedemption on July 09, 2015, 06:08:03 AM
What do I do with my time?
I do things with my family, mainly my little brother and dogs. I read, I watch movies, I go outside to the forest when it rains since there is nobody else out then, plus I love rain. I've also started writing. And the best thing of all, I finally get to sleep for long enough. In other words, now I have time to live.
As for employment......no. Just no, I was employed once and never will be again. It's literally one of the most traumatic experiences of my life. Eight hours, doing unpleasant and boring things, just waiting for the clock to hit four so I get back home, and after that, so tired that I couldn't do anything but sit down and watch TV.
Plus, I'm very uncomfortable with the whole capitalistic society. Why do I have to pay money for food, water, and a roof over my head? That food is mass-produced, the water still has traces from chemicals after a thousand purifications, and I own the house if I live in it. Is it so wrong that I refuse to make more money for the people who already have so much more than they deserve?

Well no disrespect to those that are unemployed, but many of us inadvertently take advantage of the fact that a lot of people work and do work that other can't and wont do so that others can indulge in those liberties. Liberties like being able to purchase food in a grocery store as opposed to going out to hunt, kill, and carve up an animal just to be able to have sandwiches later. Water is free but the treatment of fresh drinking water isn't nor is the management of the raw sewage removal accompanied with having running water. Honestly no one wants to do that, but it has to be done.
Do or do not there is no try!
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StrykerXIII

Currently busting my hump to find work. I spend basically all my free time doing that, taking breaks here or there to maintain my sanity.
To strive to reach the apex of evolution is folly, for to achieve the pinnacle is to birth a god.

When the Stryker fires, all turn to dust in its wake.
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Lady Smith

Living with chronic illness as I do I've had periods of time off work on Sickness benefit in between holding down a job.  I had to take early retirement due to ill health and now I'm supported by an Invalid's benefit.  Depending on how well I am I still love to get out on one of my elderly English bicycles and with living in a small rural town like I do traffic is light most of the time.  Back when I was still living in the city I had to give up riding and hang my bikes up in the garage because riding in traffic had become far too dangerous.
The weather is too cold at the moment for me to be doing much tinkering around with my bikes, so that will have to keep for warmer weather.

I like to read and now that I own a Kindle I seem to be reading more than ever.  In between I have a study project or two that I like to do purely for my own interest.  I've thought about picking up some papers via extra mural distance learning to complete the degree I was doing when I had to retire due to illness, but I've decided I can't be bothered as it's highly unlikely that I'll be employed by anybody ever again.  Life's too short to be spending it doing exams and writing assignments.

When I was having a bad time with illness a while ago I worked on building a town and railway station in Lego as a way to keep my mind and the fine motor control in my hands working together properly.  Essentially Lego is a 3D jigsaw puzzle which was exactly what I needed to aid my recovery back then.  Don't ask me how much Lego and Lego clone/compatible bricks I own, but I can tell you it's a considerable amount.
Speaking of puzzles I build and rebuild my own computers up from parts too.  I get all my parts very cheaply from computer recyclers and while my machines can look a bit on the 'rat tech' side of things they are very reliable and the price is definitely right.
Sometimes when the mood is on me I'll do some handcraft work or even a little model making.  When I was younger I used to build intricate models in brass, but my eyesight isn't good enough for that now.  Unfortunately I no longer own any of these models as I had to sell them off as a way to pay the bills during the long stand down period before I could apply for the Invalids benefit.

I don't watch TV and don't even own a working example of a television set, but I do like to watch good movies on my computer.  Recently I've started to watch a few of the better kinds of television series on my computer as well which I enjoy doing when I'm not so well.

Writing is something I've always done for as long as I can remember and it was my safety valve back when I was still working as a social worker.  In the era of the e.book getting published is easier than it was in the days of the printed book so I'm considering looking at my writing more seriously again.

I did used to potter about in my garden, but I haven't done that for the past couple of years due to not being well.  I was a fairly terrible gardener anyway so no doubt my plants and shrubs are much relieved that I'm leaving them alone to get on with it.

Taking up HourGlass2B's point I am very much aware that society functions on many people doing fairly boring and tedious jobs, - and these days more often than not for minimum wages too.  How long such a state of inequality will continue before the wheels fall off who can say.
I suppose I'm lucky in a way.  My small 1930's cottage might not be much to look at, but it is mine free and clear.  Being not especially interested in shiny consumer status symbols and not believing in usury means that I live very cheaply indeed.  I'd rather not be ill, but I am and I doubly count myself lucky that New Zealand still does provide on-going support for folk like me who can't maintain regular employment.


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The_Gentleboy

Well before I was at school, but we've broken up now. So I mope around the house. Listen to music. Chill.

I have been trying to get a job but its been unsuccessful so far.
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Oliviah

Currently I mostly sit around feeling sad and wanting to cry and in general throwing myself a pity party. 
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Laura_7

Quote from: FreyasRedemption on July 09, 2015, 06:08:03 AM
What do I do with my time?
I do things with my family, mainly my little brother and dogs. I read, I watch movies, I go outside to the forest when it rains since there is nobody else out then, plus I love rain. I've also started writing. And the best thing of all, I finally get to sleep for long enough. In other words, now I have time to live.
As for employment......no. Just no, I was employed once and never will be again. It's literally one of the most traumatic experiences of my life. Eight hours, doing unpleasant and boring things, just waiting for the clock to hit four so I get back home, and after that, so tired that I couldn't do anything but sit down and watch TV.
Plus, I'm very uncomfortable with the whole capitalistic society. Why do I have to pay money for food, water, and a roof over my head? That food is mass-produced, the water still has traces from chemicals after a thousand purifications, and I own the house if I live in it. Is it so wrong that I refuse to make more money for the people who already have so much more than they deserve?

I understand.
You might try to see it from a point of view what you would like to do.
Most people have some interests... or hobbies... which might be turned into meaningful activities.
Sometimes it doesn't even have to be a paid job first.
Sometimes an actvity as volunteer can be turned into a job... or people notice and try to hire...

Many people have interests and talents that could be turned into a good cause...
and it doesn't have to be full time work...

hugs
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Ms Grace

I was unemployed for four months from January. What did I do with my time? I put in job applications!! When I wasn't doing that, I was trying to stay socially connected with friends, getting out of the house every day and also working on personal projects such as writing and drawing. I now have a job. :)
Grace
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Transition 1.0 (Julie): HRT 1989-91
Self-denial: 1991-2013
Transition 2.0 (Grace): HRT June 24 2013
Full-time: March 24, 2014 :D
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Contravene

Quote from: FreyasRedemption on July 09, 2015, 06:08:03 AM
What do I do with my time?
I do things with my family, mainly my little brother and dogs. I read, I watch movies, I go outside to the forest when it rains since there is nobody else out then, plus I love rain. I've also started writing. And the best thing of all, I finally get to sleep for long enough. In other words, now I have time to live.
As for employment......no. Just no, I was employed once and never will be again. It's literally one of the most traumatic experiences of my life. Eight hours, doing unpleasant and boring things, just waiting for the clock to hit four so I get back home, and after that, so tired that I couldn't do anything but sit down and watch TV.
Plus, I'm very uncomfortable with the whole capitalistic society. Why do I have to pay money for food, water, and a roof over my head? That food is mass-produced, the water still has traces from chemicals after a thousand purifications, and I own the house if I live in it. Is it so wrong that I refuse to make more money for the people who already have so much more than they deserve?

I can see where you're coming from. The last three jobs I had were soul crushing and made me scared to look for something else. I was sick of busting my ass to make my bosses rich when I could hardly afford the gas money to drive to work everyday while my one boss would pull up in a Range Rover and tell me to get out of her parking spot.

It took me a year to not only find a job but to start a career I'm really happy with and where I don't really have a boss lording over me. I'm so glad I waited and was lucky enough to find it. When I was unemployed I searched for job opportunities and worked on my portfolio. It ended up really paying off, pun intended.

Finding the right job can be so rewarding. I still would like to be my own boss one day, maybe do more freelancing but I'm really happy where I'm at now.
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Cheska

Due to where I work and how they hire staff, I can often spend long periods of time away  from work without a guaranteed time of when I will go back. Unfortunately I'm in that spot right now so I spend a lot of time looking for another job, with (better) job security and something that I actually have an interest in doing preferably. Either way, I do need to be in employment, transitioning without it is damn near impossible.
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zog

I pretend work, do podcasts, music and stuff to keep my professional abilities up to date (I'm an audio engineer). Other than that I watch a lot of movies, read books and play video games. Also, go on walks, hang out with friends. Oh, and I'm bored quite often as well.

I most certainly want to work, but it's difficult as heck to find anything in Finland at the moment. Being in the middle of transitioning doesn't help either. Especially since much of my documentation is still in my old name while I have changed my legal one. I can only imagine the hassle later this year when my social security number changes along with my legal sex. I've already had one promising job opportunity fall out and I strongly suspect that it is because of it.

Another option is to study a bit more. I'm looking into it this fall while job searching.
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Laura_7

Quote from: zog on July 13, 2015, 04:28:07 PM

I've already had one promising job opportunity fall out and I strongly suspect that it is because of it.

If you probably will not have contact again with them you might call there and ask why. They might take a few minutes and really talk with you.
One person for example was told their application would not work out this way, well the same application succeeded a few days later in another place...
Don't take it personal. It might be subjective, but there might be one or two hints there. And they might know someone somewhere...

hugs
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Tossu-sama

I mainly spend my time on the few hobbies I have; drawing, gaming and mtg. I also spend time with our rats, watching tv if there's something worthwhile or just do nothing in particular (I'm very good at that). But all this is just procrastinating things I really should be doing but... I can always do them tomorrow, right?

I applied for this education thingy that starts in August and got accepted. I'm hoping it'll improve my chances of getting a job in the future. My current education is in a field where a guy like isn't exactly most wanted employee.
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Nicodeme

I just left a job so I'm a NEET again. I waste a lot of time on the internet, but I've also gotten back into knitting and crochet. I have a large yarn stash that has been sitting around with a lot of small, otherwise unusable balls of yarn, so at the moment I'm working on a lot of granny squares to make a blanket or two for charity.

I will get another job eventually, I just have to work through the disappointment that this last one didn't work out and get to know myself/work on myself more before I look again. I don't want to go through finding out I was a terrible fit for the work again any time soon.
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Oliviah

So I got a job as a contributing writer for the web version of a Houston newspaper as Olivia.  I am over the moon happy. 

http://hypehouston.com/feed-the-beast/eating-raw-living-things-is-great-even-at-a-food-truck-in-katy/
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