Quote from: jayhey on June 19, 2015, 06:24:40 PM
Okay, thanks. I contacted them for a Skype consultation. Their work seems more aggressive which I like.
Jayhey,
Permission to be blunt ?
So,
1) you ask a lot of good questions about trying to change your wide jaw.
2) You post up pictures of your face.
3) In response to the good questions about which surgeon to find - - you ultimately do exactly the right thing:
You find a surgeon who is
a) board certified by a real plastic surgery board:
b) qualified in orthognathic or maxilla-facial surgery; and,
c) has at least some training in craniofacial surgery.
4) This surgeon is not known for his FFS work - - but he really does appear to be qualified to tell you what is medically possible to be done for you.
5) This surgeon reviews your requests and then politely refuses to take your money and do the surgery you are seeking. Further, that surgeon who will not take your money tells you that what you want cannot be accomplished with surgery.
And that isn't good enough. You won't take that "no" for an answer. So you start out to hunt another surgeon, based on further suggestions in this thread of messages. And you will probably end up with someone, maybe someone in a foreign country, who is not nearly as well qualified - -
and who will be willing to take your money.If you were to now, again, go to one of the very few other surgeons that are trained in those three areas - - and are actually experienced in full FFS work - - I suspect they might also tell you the same thing that the surgeon has already told you. But maybe not. But if they did think what you want can be done, then you would want a really good explanation as to why and how the changes you want can be done by them, and why the first surgeon said it could not be done. And you would want to carefully consider the benefits you seek against the surgical risks that always exist even in the hands of the very best of the best surgeons.
There are very few in the world with training in those three critical areas
and extensive real FFS experience.
Finally, when I look at your pictures - - if you were my friend - - I would tell you to thank your lucky stars that you are stunningly beautiful with a "trade mark" facial structure that reminds me of Muriel Hemingway's distinctive and beautiful face.
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Why do I (and I would expect any number of others looking at this string of messages and your pictures ) get the feeling that what you are trying to do - -
is really not going to work out very well ? So - - thank you for allowing me to to be blunt. Please be very very careful.
The enemy of beautiful is often an attempt at "better".