For all of my fellow kinksters, do you find it difficult finding P/people to play with or have as P/partners in the lifestlye? also how do Y/you identify and like to be addressed?

I find that a lot of lesbian ciswomen and transmen want to either play with Me or have Me as their Dominant. I have had straight/bi ciswomen approach Me as well but they really identify as pansexual.

I am a Master in the lifestyle for over 10 years. To My baby girl, I am Daddy/Papa and to others its Sir or Master Zach, depends on T/their preference.

So I'm not exactly into leather, but I am very submissive.

I've had no problems in finding interested people of all sorts of genders, roles, and sexual orientations. Since transitioning I've tried my hand at being a Domme, mostly trying out a few people who couldn't handle me. Most have been hetero or bisexual men, but I've also been Domme to a bisexual trans-girl. As a Domme, I usually prefer being addressed as 'Ma'am' or 'Miss', and sometimes 'Mistress'. But I hate when someone starts with Mistress if I don't know them. I find it very presumptuous and annoying. If I haven't claimed you, then I am not your Mistress! And even then I don't care for it as much as 'Ma'am'.

I much rather prefer being a submissive though. I've been owned and collared by a Domme before, tried out by a Master or two, and am currently being considered by a Domme whom I'm also dating. As a submissive, I would be addressed by whatever name or title my Dominant prefers. As far as roles go, I prefer being considered a slave, but sometimes enjoy the pet role and have been mildly interested in being a babygirl.   

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I'm curious to see how it plays out for me. But making those connections likely won't be much harder than they have been in my past I would think. Right now, the group I belong to call me Marlee, and always refer to me as "her' or "she" even though I haven't attended any functions in fem mode yet. It's refreshing
But as for preferences, it seems to evolving as well. Perhaps my femme interior is playful domme.