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What made you happy today? For mtF members only, please.

Started by ChiGirl, April 24, 2015, 06:29:26 PM

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JenniferGreen

I went to my GP today for the firSt time as Jennifer. I was nervous as hell as the waiting room was packed. Not one look or comment was made until I walked into the Drs room where she immediately said 'hello Jennifer' . I was surprised as I did not know she new my name. Consultation went as normal with further investigations into by bowel issues. And then off. I strode out of there head held high like I had won some kind of prize. Never felt so confident and happy. Drove home smiling all the way. Can't wait to go full time. J


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Jessie Ann

Discovered that I have lost about an inch and a half of height. I've gone from being 6'2" to 6' 1/2" tall. 
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Martine A.

There are days when thoughts of self orchidotomy come. I am happy to be sane enough to not go there. :)
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Dee Marshall

I realized that my voice raises at least one octive if someone addresses me as "Dee" rather than my full name.
April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!

Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.

They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
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Mado G

I've been learning to play a song that I've wanted to figure out for a long time and finally nailed it. It's full of unorthodox jazz chords, modulations, and the vocal phrases starting on non-chord tones. Tough stuff. ;D
Mado G.

"This mountain is so formed that it is always wearisome when one begins the ascent, but becomes easier the higher one climbs." ― Dante Alighieri, Purgatorio
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ChiGirl

Made my first appointment at the Howard Brown Center in Chicago to start HRT.  Less than 3 weeks from now, I'll be starting another part of my journey.  Well, 3 weeks, plus 2 more appointments, but still...

I gave them my insurance info, and then she asked for my preferred name.  I told her, and replied, "Charlotte? OK, that is how you will be referred as here."  SQEEEE!

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Kellam

I got my ears pierced! The best psrt was that the guy that did it was born on the same day and same year as me. He was cute too! It was the capper to a wonderful day.
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Jessie Ann

Got home from work to discover that my passport was here. Tomorrow I can go to Dept of Homeland Security and get my Global Entry account updated with my new name and gender.   

I looked in the mirror tonight and saw a woman starring back at me. I am amazed at how fast I have been able to get so much done and changed with my life. Sometimes I think is this all a dream??  But then I realize it's not a dream and I am becoming the woman I have always been afraid to acknowledge I am. 

Going to celebrate by going for a nice 3 mile run. 
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RavenL

Jessie that's great!

I got an appointment with an endocrinologist! Not till November 4 but I'm lucky since she's the only trans friendly one near by. I really didn't want to have to make a hundered mile round trip for the next one. Really its not that long only about three months plus in the mean time I can just make myself healthier!   






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iKate

Had my first conf call today with my new voice. It did not get tired and it passed completely. I sounded great.
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Kellam

Got my new work ID with my new name and a new picture. I made it happen too, I told the security guy what was going to happen, he tried to make me keep my old picture. I told him in no uncertain terms that I needed a new one. I am really proud of myself.

Loving this whole transition thing, I have never been happier!
https://atranswomanstale.wordpress.com This is my blog A Trans Woman's Tale -Chris Jen Kellam-Scott

"You must always be yourself, no matter what the price. It is the highest form of morality."   -Candy Darling



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iKate

Well this is an odd story, but I should share it.

Yesterday I met up with a well known person who is publicly anti LGBT anything, especially with regard to marriage and trans bathroom issues. Quite by accident. But hey, it's New York and stuff happens in NYC. But somehow I managed to keep my cool through all of this until... well, it gets better.

So we struck up a conversation. We talked about where I live etc. Then he said, "so Garrett is your congressman?" I said, "yes, and he's pissing me off to no end."

He said, "how come?"
I said, "He says the GOP shouldn't look to recruit gay candidates. Why won't they get it? The democrats are killing them with this."

He said, "well, you can't really deny the bible and the word of God, you know. This country was founded on a strong pillar of faith."

I said, "Well, I'm a Christian, and I believe that God said we should love one another - and that includes gays and transgender people. Everyone. "

I said, "you know, what really pi**es me off? The fact that people can't get over the fact that transgender people can't use the proper restroom. I mean what is that about?"

Then he says, "Listen. Let's say you're in the bathroom, doing whatever. Then all of a sudden a big strappin' dude like, oh, I dunno, Bruce Jenner walks in. How are YOU going to react?"

And I literally stopped, stunned... I said, "okaaaaay have a nice day, sir." And I walked off.

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sparrow

Filled my spiro scrip yesterday!  Still a bit anxious about it all, but I'm excited. :D
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Dee Marshall

Nice job, Kate! It's a shame his mind is closed.

Today, for the first time, I told my hairdresser to do my hair girly. She showed me how to handle my bangs without hacking them off and how to get the most out of my curls. Just left there and my hair is still damp, so I haven't gotten the full effect. Also, I have a coworker I only know well enough to smile and nod to in passing. I've been pretty sure the coworker is trans. Today they were in a pencil skirt and maryjanes, so I walked up smiling and said I'd been meaning to ask them a question. The coworker smiled shyly looking a little nervous. I asked, "what are your preferred pronouns?" Her face lit up as she said, "I use 'she'." I replied that she could do the same for me in a month or less.
April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!

Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.

They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
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RavenL

Well I've been really self conscious with my speaking voice this week. Even if a lot of people have told me it sounds fine. But my therapist made  my day today since i asked him about it. And he said while it is deep it doesn't sound male its a sexy feminine voice and that I kind of sound like Demi Moore! So now my confidence has gone way up and now I'm not as afraid to talk now.






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iKate


Quote from: RavenL on July 30, 2015, 04:38:41 PM
Well I've been really self conscious with my speaking voice this week. Even if a lot of people have told me it sounds fine. But my therapist made  my day today since i asked him about it. And he said while it is deep it doesn't sound male its a sexy feminine voice and that I kind of sound like Demi Moore! So now my confidence has gone way up and now I'm not as afraid to talk now.

That's wonderful! I can attest to how a good voice is a game changer. I have zero confidence issues now. Zip, zilch, nada.
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Kitty June

Congrats Dee. I just did the same today with my hair. I had to get it shorter for a new job, male dress code, so I got bangs and a cute short cut. I showed her a picture from the book and she did the best she could with my widows peak. I'd been frightened of asking for what I want, but since work is making me cut it, I figured I'd get it in a way I could still present female. I'm hoping that I can change to female at work, but not just yet.



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RavenL

Well this made me happy but also kind of creepy at least to me. I went over to a friends house today since we were going to the mall. As I was walking across the street to her house I noticed a truck at a stop sign was just sitting there and not moving. Kind of made me nervous but I was really close to her house and didn't worry. Well got home tonight and noticed I had a piece of paper on my windshield and it said "Tall & Sexy Love to buy you a micro beer Text me" Followed by his name and phone number. Well I guess if that's not passing and don't know what is.






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Sigyn

Got a new arm brace for Francine, and tried her out in the desert.

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iKate

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