Sighs.
All wanting to pee comfortably.
And yet that is why its so
difficult.TFA transwoman in the womans, creats for some of them, the very thing said transwoman goes there to avoid.
And thats why its so hard for me to face this problemb, at timeS i FEEL as though the only soloution to this probemb is to say, this side matter more, when the truth is nether is more important.
But when your faced with, the very real situation of to help this person with an issue, it creates the same issue in another, somthing different does need to be done. But what? Thats what does it.
Im realy nieve on this subject, I cant see a fair way forwards. And thats why for the most part I cant face it. But when I think about it, the problemb is caused by society impression of us. So adress that maybe?
At work, The first time I went to the toilet, I asked if ther was a disabled toilet or a toilet neutral in some other way. That worked for a while. Untill, said toilet was having work done. I couldnt go.
Now, every single woman I worked with said to me, "just use the ladies" I said my gender isnt changed legaly yet, and to use the ladaies, is a breach of the law. The unified reaction was, thats not fair. Any way, the next day, the signe of the ladies said STAFF. (the male staff didnt use it)
Now after the work was completted, the disabled toilet was labeled, staff and disabled toilets and baby changing area. Now all female staff use that toilet aswell as me. all male staff use the gents. You dont have to use this one on my account I said.
But the responce was, your one of us, and we should pee together and were not about to let a silly law stop you from peeing with us
I think my benifit is, all the woman I share that toilet with, welcome me. On a larger scale when it impossible for everybody that uses it to know you, its a much more comlicated matter.
Like a school for example, Its impossible for any child to know and be known by all of the fellow pupils. The difference is plain to see, when they point out, the demonstrators were in two distincs groups.
Those that know and accept her identity, and those that know of her and only accept their opinion or another opinion of them.
