I completely agree with you about Kiwis Claire. In my time living where I am now in the Waikato I've had absolutely no problems with anyone not accepting me, - well apart from a tiny handful of nutters who belong to one of the small fringe christian churches here in town, - but I just ignore them.
In general I haven't a clue whether or not anyone around here knows I'm TG because I get treated the same as anybody else.