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Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?

Started by dearlybeloved, September 14, 2015, 03:23:51 PM

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dearlybeloved

Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?

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Devlyn

Are you asking about Male to Female crossdressers?
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Kerry30Den

As a male who cross dresses I consider myself straight as I'm attracted to women only. Dressing isn't about being attractive to males, but feeling comfort for me.  I'm fortunate enough to have found a wife who likes and encourages this side of me.
Happily married CD, out to my wife and select friends.
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Kendra14

Straight when dressed in men's attire but bi or queer when dressed en femme . Always attracted to women, but there is something about wearing pantyhose and lipstick that makes me want to be with men too, especially other cross dressed men
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SueNZ

Quote from: Kerry30Den on September 15, 2015, 12:58:19 PM
As a male who cross dresses I consider myself straight as I'm attracted to women only. Dressing isn't about being attractive to males, but feeling comfort for me.  I'm fortunate enough to have found a wife who likes and encourages this side of me.
I am the same. If I was a female I would be a lesbian.
I just love the feel and look of female attire on me even though I will never be passable.
My wife has said since I now am free to express myself that she has found me more settled and a nicer person.

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Kerry30Den

Quote from: SueNZ on September 16, 2015, 12:52:29 AM
I am the same. If I was a female I would be a lesbian.
I just love the feel and look of female attire on me even though I will never be passable.
My wife has said since I now am free to express myself that she has found me more settled and a nicer person.

I don't try to be passable either.  I find that I'm more settled and nicer since I accepted who I am.  I spent a lot of energy fighting it and trying to be someone else and that affected my personality.  Once I'd sorted it out I was free to just be me.  I'm not a pushover by any means, but I am less prone to aggravation on the smaller things in life.  I also find that I'm more optimistic with a site of pragmatic where I was more of a pessimist before.  Funny how things like acceptance and getting in touch with yourself bring out those better personality traits.
Happily married CD, out to my wife and select friends.
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Sandy74

In my inner feelings I think I am a transgender woman but in reality I am male of course and I consider myself gay. I am not really that attracted to women in a sexual way. I am attracted and jealous of the body parts that they have that I don't have but other than that nothing more. I have been sexual with females and I am passive these days when I am with guys and enjoy being dominated.
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cheryl reeves

I'm attracted too women I love everything about a womans body,nothing about a males body holds any attraction to me,I find it odd though I am attracted to she male porn, wife even has a hard time understanding that one also.
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Kerry30Den

Quote from: cheryl reeves on September 17, 2015, 12:07:19 AM
I'm attracted too women I love everything about a womans body,nothing about a males body holds any attraction to me,I find it odd though I am attracted to she male porn, wife even has a hard time understanding that one also.

I've seen this question about the attraction to ->-bleeped-<- porn and what does it mean before.  From what I've read it doesn't mean you are attracted to men, but that you are attracted to women.  A ->-bleeped-<- has that extra bit that a genetic girl doesn't.  That bit is a symbol of power and virility and many straight guys are attracted to what it represents, it being attached to an attractive female form makes it more accessible/acceptable to like to your psyche. (lots of psycho babble there). It's also different and naughty and may fill a fantasy.

I wouldn't be too concerned and hopefully your wife isn't freaked out by it.

Happily married CD, out to my wife and select friends.
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dearlybeloved

Quote from: Devlyn Marie on September 14, 2015, 03:28:59 PM
Are you asking about Male to Female crossdressers?

Yes, men that like to dress in women's clothing.
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dearlybeloved

Quote from: cheryl reeves on September 17, 2015, 12:07:19 AM
I'm attracted too women I love everything about a womans body,nothing about a males body holds any attraction to me,I find it odd though I am attracted to she male porn, wife even has a hard time understanding that one also.

That was another question I had. What type of porn do trans like? I could not figure out what forum section to put it.
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Shawna70

Quote from: dearlybeloved on September 14, 2015, 03:23:51 PM
Male crossdressers...how do you identify sexually?
Well I am married to a woman but cd as a female, i am bi as i like both genders but i prefer to live with a woman. There are times that a man can only give me what i need that a woman cant.

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KathyLauren

2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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Chrissy5946

I'm bisexual
Absolutely adore all body types regardless, prefer Alpha males who are loving,caring and treat a lady well. Being totally submissive, my desire is to always please my partner, I do expect to be treated well and thoughtfully.
I crossdress to satisfy my female assignment at birth. I do not regret dressing as a man during work the work day, even though I'm female in my core being.




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Kanda Jo

When I'm in guy mode, I am attracted only to women and CD/TG women. When I am dressed, I am attracted to men as well. There really is some weird switch in my brain that changes how I feel...maybe I'm more messed up than I thought!
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Allison Wunderland

SEXUALLY attracted to cis-F. But the attraction goes mostly toward a huge gender-envy. I wanna be female, be with females. It gets feminist/political. Alienated by male gender roles, male sexuality.
"Let us appropriate & subvert the semiotic hegemony of the hetero-normative dyad."

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westin21

Sexually attracted to females, love their clothes!!!! Doesn't mean that I do not appreciate a good looking guy
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