My transition, homophobia, and the "gender ideology"

http://shaman.io/blogs/andrea/2015/10/my-transition-homophobia-gender.html

Shaman/Posted on Oct 1, 2015 by Andrea Martinelli

"Dysphoria and transition

I've never been too happy about my appearance, although letting my hair grow helped me quite a lot.
For some time, I thought I could just continue as a feminine guy. However, I always feared the future. The only few guys I felt some envy for, were those who were more feminine than me, and of course I realize they (and me) numerically fade away once their 20s are over."