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Hows your relationship status as you transition?

Started by stephaniec, October 15, 2015, 03:26:02 PM

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Hows your relationship status as you transition?

married
23 (41.8%)
common law
1 (1.8%)
seperated  and dating
1 (1.8%)
seperated and not dating
2 (3.6%)
divorced and dating
3 (5.5%)
divorced and not dating
2 (3.6%)
single and dating ,never been married
2 (3.6%)
single and not dating
13 (23.6%)
have no interest in dating
4 (7.3%)
other options
4 (7.3%)

Total Members Voted: 55

iKate

Married... on paper only.

We are so not attracted to each other in the least now.

I don't have a boyfriend yet either but I don't think that will be for long. :)
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pretty pauline

Quote from: Debra on October 16, 2015, 04:28:20 PM
Divorced 2010
Dated for a while
Re-married in 2015 =)

Honeymoon in Disneyworld next week!
Congratulations Debra that's wonderful news, honeymoon in Disneyworld sounds romantic, I got married in 2010, 5th wedding anniversary this year.
If your going thru hell, just keep going.
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CrysC

Married for 23 years.  Still together. 
The relationship is certainly different but we are each other's best friend. 
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BridgetYvonne

my relationship w/ my GF Vikki has been great. a bit rocky but great. Not sure if she some how knew that I CD before I told her but there sure were signs that she did. 1-she had me dress 'en femme' as a Pan Am stewardess our 1st Halloween (2012) After I lost my job & apt, I moved in w/ her & instead of paying rent, I did the cooking & cleaning (feb 2013) Apr 2013 I helped her springclean by helping her got thru her closet & box up some of stuff for Goodwill. After I told her that I CD (Jul 2013) I asked her if she knew? She just gave me a girlish giggle, which I now do, & said "A girls perogitive to keep secrets." I know there is a 'womens intuition' but did she know? There are times when Vikki treats me as her kingsized Barbie. We'd go out to a store & she'd have me try something on, in a changing room that she wants to buy. (we are the same Ht/Wt (5/5 147) My revelation tok her awhile to let it all soak in. She joked saying  "Oh so you're dating me for my clothes, not my body? When a guy says he wants to get into a girl's Jeans, this is usually not what is meant." She jokes when she doesn't know how to handle a situation. It took her abit 2 weeks so I stayed 'tomboy' until I knew. 
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kaitylynn

Hit a point at which it actually started to make sense to skip dating till I get myself sorted out a little better.  Have had more than a few ladies tell me that I do not need to be in a rush and to focus on me for a while.

Funny thing, suddenly my X wants to be with me...I think that is more so she can book us on Springer or some stuff.
Katherine Lynn M.

You've got a light that always guides you.
You speak of hope and change as something good.
Live your truth and know you're not alone.

The restart - 20-Oct-2015
Legal name and gender change affirmed - 27-Sep-2016
Breast Augmentation (Dr. Gupta) - 27-Aug-2018
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Amber74

I have been with my gf  for ten years this past september  Shes only  has known I am trans for 2 years and fully supports me and we plan on getting married once I go full time and am* me*
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Sspar

Married 29.5 years..
came out 6 months ago..( lots of clues thru the years )
Wife was pissed at first..... very..
she's still annoyed, but things have improved greatly..
lots of learning and adjustment for the both of us..
we have always loved each other and i think when all is
said and done, I believe we will come out the other side
different.. but happy and together
new beginning 5/15...
HRT 7/15...
BA & Bottom 10/26/16 (Rummer)...
VFS 11/16/16 (Haben)...
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islandgirl

We have been married for 41 years, and have been together for 44. It has been a real roller coaster ride since I came out to my wife last Oct. I really don't know what the future will bring but I do know that we are working hard at continuing the journey together. There are great days full of joy and those filled with uncertainty, fear and tears. One day at a time is my goal.
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HeatherR

The obstacles of your past can become the gateways that lead to new beginnings.  ~Ralph Blum~



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michelle

How does divorced and co-parenting sound?    I am with my second family and we have been together 13 years.   I am not sure how to define our relationship except for living together and co-parenting our 12-year-old.   
Be true to yourself.  The future will reveal itself in its own due time.    Find the calm at the heart of the storm.    I own my womanhood.

I am a 69-year-old transsexual school teacher grandma & lady.   Ethnically I am half Irish  and half Scandinavian.   I can be a real bitch or quite loving and caring.  I have never taken any hormones or had surgery, I am out 24/7/365.
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allisonsteph

My third and final divorce should be finalized in the next 30-45 days. Jumped into a relationship immediately upon separating from my wife, and began transitioning. It was so disastrous that I would up homeless for six months. Haven't dated in over a year, and have no desire to.
In Ardua Tendit (She attempts difficult things)
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