Quote from: Nero on December 15, 2007, 07:27:59 PM
As a child, were you subjected to teachers who condoned, ignored, or actually took part in your abuse and persecution by other students?
I was.
Posted on: December 15, 2007, 08:18:15 PM
What can we do to protect children from bigotted teachers?
Is there anything we can do?
From the third to the eighth grade I had my ass busted unmercifully because I knew nothing of baseball, didn't play on the Little League, didn't care about flipping baseball cards, had no idea how football was played, didn't inflict pain on small animals, and didn't attack girls.
I was a fast learner and straight A student. This did not do me any good as in the third grade the other boys formed a "we don't play with honor students" club. In fourth grade I did a talk on how television works, got an A, and immediately incurred the wrath of the fools who knew more of sports than I did.
The teachers weren't actively bigoted. It was more like benign neglect, or turning their heads to look the other way. It was quite miserable until I left that school to go to a large high school where I blended-in and had a much better experience for a time.
The worst, biased, prejudiced, bigoted, pain-in-the-ass teacher I ever knew is my own older sister. She made my HS days as miserable as she could because the *itc* taught where I went to HS. She and the jackass husband of hers stopped by my parents' home every day to snitch on me and get my mother all in a tizzy over the problem de jour. Oh, did I ever owe my sister! She and her horse's a$$ husband made sure that I almost never had a quiet supper. They nosed into my school life and my social life.
Karma has its way and I caught her stealing from my dad. He has Alzheimer's. I took her to court where justice was done, or at least started to be done. I have my failing here because I wanted to choke her but never did. Talk about missed opportunities...
I never thought I had so much residual bad feelings about school still residing within me.
Thanks for asking, Nero.
What can we do to protect our children from bigoted teachers? IMHO, get involved in your child's school day and listen for signs of abuse and neglect. When you feel something's wrong, start by talking with the teacher and if you don't get the answer you need, pursue it to the max, even to the point of involving the news media.
Lately I have seen some cases of teachers having affairs with teenage students. This is highly improper and should be a "one strike" offense.
Thank you, All, for hearing me out.
Wing Walker