Hey everyone,

I posted on another forum but this might be a better place. I have been dating this wonderful F2M guy for 3 years now. He hates to talk about his transition or anything even related to it. Long story short, the strap on he uses is not the best, I would prefer a more realistic kind. Can anyone suggest a good realistic type (brand and what else I need to get), that can be used for sex? I have a ton of other questions but this is the start.

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Is there a thread on the forum where sexual issues like this are talked about that would be better for me to post/read

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I went to post and saw your next question. There is a sexuality area under health but you won't be able to see it until you reach 15 quality post. If you attempt to post pad by making small posts to run up the count, the post will be deleted or your post count adjusted.

Oh Joy Sex Toy (sex toy review comic by Erika Moen) has review of nice harnesses and toys and whatnot. If you're looking for realism, the bandit is super super nice or honestly anything from Tantus. Spare parts makes nice harnesses. Also this little etsy shop and they'll custom make you a harness in any color or print you want and theyre very accommodating to toy sizes and comfy to boot. https://www.etsy.com/shop/FullyStrapped. Hope that helps!

Until you do get enough posts to check out the thread on here maybe doing a Net search for something like ftm packer and you'll get a lot of info.  I did that and found all kind of helpful stuff.  Hopefully your bf will become more comfortable so you guys can talk about it because there are so many options it can actually heighten the sexual experience.  It did for me.  Good luck and have fun :-D   


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Thanks everyone for your help, if anyone feels like talking via email (if that is allowed) let me know.

Quote from: J1979 on November 05, 2015, 08:13:51 PM
Thanks everyone for your help, if anyone feels like talking via email (if that is allowed) let me know.

I would suggest checking out Vixen Creations.  Their "vix skin" is very realistic.  It is a little bit softer than the "original formula", however, so it is a bit more bendy.  I have been using the Vixen creations dildos for years and all of my partners have said that they feel very realistic.  Go directly to their site to see the full range of items.  I would suggest the "Woody", as it is a good size.  It's length is completely based on the average sized woman's vagina.  You can go wrong there.  I would personally start with the original formula Woody and then if you like how it feels and want to put out the cash for a "vix skin" model, do that. 

The most realistic would be a high end prosthetic from Reel Magik or Emisil.  Don't be fooled though that you can get away with them being adhered to the skin.  He will have to wear a harness.