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Started by Dana88, October 07, 2015, 01:16:20 AM

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Dana88

So can any of the moderators illuminate for me? It seems my long one week update and the comments that followed were deleted. Was there any reason for this?
~Dana
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Cindy

We had a major failure in our servers and hard drives. We have lost some data, we have gone back to our last uncorrupted back up.

We run a major site on fresh air and the smell of am oily computer.

Sorry your posts were lost. We are trying to restore the databases.

Please repost.

I hope your surgery went well

Cindy
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Dana88


Quote from: Cindy on November 07, 2015, 02:36:18 AM
We had a major failure in our servers and hard drives. We have lost some data, we have gone back to our last uncorrupted back up.

We run a major site on fresh air and the smell of am oily computer.

Sorry your posts were lost. We are trying to restore the databases.

Please repost.

I hope your surgery went well

Cindy

Got it. No worries. I was just making sure I didn't violate any rules!


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Dana88

Okay! So! Susan's went down briefly and lost some data, including my one week postop update. SO luckily I had typed it all out on my iPhone notes and then just copied and pasted into here, so I'm just reposting exactly what I posted before. :P

Here she is boys! Here she is girls! Here's my one week update :-).

So firstly, here's a picture:



The upper left hand photo was the day after my surgery. Then the photos  move in clockwise order finally ending at today which is the bottom left hand photo.

So, firstly, energy wise I feel pretty back to normal. I'm staying at Jenny's Nest (which is wonderful, and if you get FFS with FT I highly recommend staying here). Yesterday we went to the old city of Malaga. I was able to get through an hour long bus ride both ways, climbing through a twelfth century Moorish fort, walking through the old city, and climbing through a sixteenth century castle no problem. We were out for a total of 11 hours. Obviously I was tired at the end, but I don't think I was any more tired than I would've been preop after an 11 hour very active day.

In terms of pain, the first few days, my forehead, front part of my scalp, and my chin were COMPLETELY numb. So while I was on heavier doses of pain killers, I wasn't feeling much of anything anyway. I am slowly but surely regaining feeling in those areas. My forehead is almost completely back online now, and my scalp and chin have sensation, though it's still dulled. But every day is more and more.

I'm not so much in pain as I am in occasional discomfort. Especially when I near the end of a pain killer period. When I'm set to take my next dose within the next hour, I start to get kinda a dull generalized ache all over my face. It's really more of a nuisance than anything else and at this point I could probably just deal with it if I had to (which I do in two days when I'm supposed to stop taking pain killers). The weirder part is that as nerves come back online, you get random shooting pains in otherwise numb areas of your face, or sometimes extreme itchiness. I am told this is totally normal and will stop once I regain all my feeling, which they said takes 2 weeks to get most of it back and then you may have a few lingering numb spots for a few months post op, they said usually along incisions.

Normally, when they do hair transplants to feminize the hairline, they cut out a strip of flesh from where they made the forehead incision and harvest the hair from there. Since I didn't need to do hair transplants, my incision got sutured right back where the flesh was. So I actually already have all feeling back along the scalp incision already, cause I think my nerves just went back to their old place and then only took a few days to come back to life.

In terms of swelling and bruising, the swelling has gone down HUGELY over the week (as you can see in the pictures). My jaw and chin are still quite swollen, I can feel the pressure and pockets of fluid in it, but it's gone down enough where at this point I don't think a stranger would think anything of it other than I just have a wide jaw. I HIGHLY recommend if you're doing your nose and you start to bruise, invest in some thrombocid. It's a topical cream that's supposed to help break up and flush out bruises. It has worked wonders for me. At this point I have almost no bruising at all around my right eye, and only a small line at the bottom orbital ridge and right on the water line of my eyelid on my left eye. I was skeptical of using it, but it REALLY works. I apply it 2 or 3 times a day.

As part of the cost of surgery, you get two lymphatic drainage massages with their massage therapist Antonio... Who, if you like boys, is just oh so dreamy haha. I have such a crush on him... As do all the straight girls who come through here :-P. The massage was another thing I was slightly skeptical of, but I think it really really helped the swelling in the initial days after my surgery. I think the difference in the second picture (taken before my massage) vs the third picture (taken the day after) is a testament to that.

Generally, I have found FT to be a well oiled machine. Everything runs so smoothly. They send taxis to pick you up for every appointment you have at the hospital and then drop you back off again when you're done. The taxis are always impossibly on time haha. They also give you a phone when you arrive, so if any changes are made to any of your appointments, you'll immediately get a text to your phone with the time change (and they don't change any timing of appointments with less than 24 hours notice). Also, some surgeons can be cold and clinical. FT is the complete opposite. It feels like a warm family that you are being brought into. They are so wonderful at patient care and making sure you're comfortable both physically AND emotionally.

I'm looking forward to my postop appointment on Monday so that I can finally see what's under this nose cast! I didn't do much to my nose, just reduced the width a little, I had a SMALL bump which I had reduced (though not totally removed, because I *personally* think that perfectly straight noses look unnatural), and I had the tip of my nose turned up ever so slightly. From what I can see of the tip of my nose, it's exactly what I asked for and it looks perfect.

Generally, I'm ecstatic with my results, even through all the swelling. FT is known for doing naturalistic work (because they typically only work with bone). I'm only 27 (only a month ago), and one of my BIGGEST FFS fears was starting to look plastic surgery-y in my 20s. My results already look so natural and I'm thrilled.

So! I think that's all for now :-). If anyone has any questions, feel free to ask!!!
~Dana
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Paula1

Phew Dana, lucky you saved all of your post.

When content is lost, it's almost impossible to replicate ...  :(

You are looking great ... 8)
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Dana88


Quote from: Paula1 on November 07, 2015, 04:27:47 PM
Phew Dana, lucky you saved all of your post.

When content is lost, it's almost impossible to replicate ...  :(

You are looking great ... 8)

Yup! When I write something long I always do it in a save-able location and then copy and past it in :-P.


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~Dana
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jenifer356

smart girl

the results already look awesome for such a short recovery time - makes me rethink getting stuff done

be well
jenifer
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Dana88

Quote from: jenifer356 on November 08, 2015, 10:05:42 AM
smart girl

the results already look awesome for such a short recovery time - makes me rethink getting stuff done

be well
jenifer

Thank you! I was gonna wait till I got my nose cast off tomorrow to post anymore photos, but I loved these two I snapped today on my last full day in Marbella  ;D





And tomorrow, I'll post some of the nose!
~Dana
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jenifer356

looks like the weather is as beautiful as that girl in front blocking the scenary - why do I keep thinking of that twilight zone episode with the "pig" surgeons that keep botching up their surgery - good luck tomorrow with the nose cast

be well
jenifer
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Dana88


Quote from: jenifer356 on November 08, 2015, 01:01:59 PM
looks like the weather is as beautiful as that girl in front blocking the scenary - why do I keep thinking of that twilight zone episode with the "pig" surgeons that keep botching up their surgery - good luck tomorrow with the nose cast

be well
jenifer

Hahaha. My dad said the same thing right before I left! And thank you :-).


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Debra

Quote from: Dana88 on November 05, 2015, 04:46:39 PM
Do you work presenting as male or presenting as female?

Female.

Nobody at work is aware of my past. Nor was anybody at my last job. The job before that is where I transitioned and had GCS and all of that.

I guess my worry is two-fold really. 1. they somehow realize I got feminine face surgery and it outs me as trans or 2. they just think I'm completely vain for getting 'work done' on my face.

haha

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Debra

Also, just read your 1 week postop post. Looking really good! =) That's exciting. I wonder if taking 2 weeks off work if maybe people wouldn't even notice anything, persay.

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Dana88


Quote from: Debra on November 08, 2015, 06:35:49 PM
Also, just read your 1 week postop post. Looking really good! =) That's exciting. I wonder if taking 2 weeks off work if maybe people wouldn't even notice anything, persay.

Yeah... That's what I was going to say... If you're presenting male at work and you have FFS, then sure, people will notice. But if you're already presenting female, and you take a week or two off, it's highly unlikely. More likely is that people will notice you look 'different' but not be able to put a finger on why.


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Debra

Quote from: Dana88 on November 08, 2015, 06:46:04 PM
Yeah... That's what I was going to say... If you're presenting male at work and you have FFS, then sure, people will notice. But if you're already presenting female, and you take a week or two off, it's highly unlikely. More likely is that people will notice you look 'different' but not be able to put a finger on why.

Thanks! Maybe I'll look into this more after all then =)

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deeiche

Quote from: Debra on November 08, 2015, 06:32:07 PM
Female.

Nobody at work is aware of my past. Nor was anybody at my last job. The job before that is where I transitioned and had GCS and all of that.

I guess my worry is two-fold really. 1. they somehow realize I got feminine face surgery and it outs me as trans or 2. they just think I'm completely vain for getting 'work done' on my face.

haha
When my co-workers asked, which they should not because I was out on medical issue, I told people I had sinus surgery to deal with a congenital defect. 

I am 57, transitioned 34 years ago, stealth for all those years.  I am 8 weeks post-op this coming Wed, 5 weeks hair transplants along hairline.  I had very aggressive Type III work done.  I was away from work for 5 weeks.  When I returned I still had slight bruising and a fair amount of swelling, plus you could see the redness along my hairline where the transplants were placed.

I think we give the general cis population much more credit regarding their ability to recognize a trans person, especially one who they associate with a specific gender.  A few may think you had cosmetic surgery, but women do that more frequently anyway.
"It's only money, not life or death"
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Debra

Quote from: deeiche on November 09, 2015, 08:20:14 AM
When my co-workers asked, which they should not because I was out on medical issue, I told people I had sinus surgery to deal with a congenital defect. 

I am 57, transitioned 34 years ago, stealth for all those years.  I am 8 weeks post-op this coming Wed, 5 weeks hair transplants along hairline.  I had very aggressive Type III work done.  I was away from work for 5 weeks.  When I returned I still had slight bruising and a fair amount of swelling, plus you could see the redness along my hairline where the transplants were placed.

I think we give the general cis population much more credit regarding their ability to recognize a trans person, especially one who they associate with a specific gender.  A few may think you had cosmetic surgery, but women do that more frequently anyway.

Thanks for that. All good info. Also, did you feel like as you got older, your brow bone showed more? I think I'm worried about that as well. (hence looking into FFS again). I transitioned 6 years ago myself.

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deeiche

Quote from: Debra on November 09, 2015, 09:10:48 AM
Thanks for that. All good info. Also, did you feel like as you got older, your brow bone showed more? I think I'm worried about that as well. (hence looking into FFS again). I transitioned 6 years ago myself.
Yep, my brow was definitely more noticeable, particularly as my face aged.  Age related issues, fat loss and skin sagging, made my brow more obvious.

I transitioned early enough where my skin was not damaged by years of androgen, but all the years out in the sun definitely aged my face.  I am of the belief that not everyone needs FFS, especially if they transitioned in their teens (after puberty) or twenties.  However you should consider saving for FFS at some point in time.  I had an 8.5 hour surgery and I'll admit the first 4 weeks or so were pretty tough on me.
"It's only money, not life or death"
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Dana88

Nose cast off! Here are some updated pics (10 days postop now)




~Dana
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Dana88

And yes... I took that second photo in the bathroom hahaha


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Debra

Looking amazing! Is there any swelling? i can't really tell. Pretty darn awesome for only 10 days!

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