Quote from: DianneM on November 03, 2015, 02:11:09 PM
Hi Katy and everyone on this thread....
I need hugs and prayers and strength....as I've said in previous post I recently came out to my wife.....it didn't go well and is getting worse.....she's convinced I have a mental illness and I'm following a 'dark path'....she told me that I am 'threatening my existence'..... I'm worried sick...I have 12 year old son from a previous marriage and she's even threatening to have him sent back to his alcoholic mother.....

OH Dianne, I am so sorry to hear of your pain... biggest hugs ever

Hmm, my wife suggested that had I have talked about hormones she could have suggested something to block the female urges, I just looked at her and gently said, Its not just a mental illness its a total belief in who you really are, it takes both the urge and the want too.

Is she religious?

And I really hope your son does not go back to a toxic environment... my heart is really with you xxxx

Please take care.... and as I said lots of big hugs to you (Sorry I have been dealing with a couple of things over the last few days.

L Katy 

Hi Katy,
Thanks for the positive thoughts and hugs.... I have an appointment with a lawyer Wednesday and will update after that. My wife is religious when she wants to be and is now in therapy with a Christian counselor. I am a religious person also but believe that it's a very personal thing and I don't atte church but do sit in sanctuary quite often. She also thinks I have a hormonal imbalance and its affecting me mentally........I'm staying positive and my transition is moving ahead now and I'm so happy and excited about it!! I have electrolysis at 11 this morning and.... I can't wait.......😳😳👠👠
Hugs
Dianne
xo

Hope it all goes well for you Dianne

Fingers and toes crossed xx

My wife thought that I could just ask the Dr for tablets that would supress my Womanly feelings, I told here what that would mean and she dropped the subject, think she was thinking Viagra

Anyway hope you are OK

Hugs

Katy xx