I agreed to be a groomsman for a good friend of mine (I'm not out to anyone yet), and I booked the travel today. It's weird I'm not sure whether I would actually think of myself as a bride. I'd like a family, and I feel that marriage would be necessary for that (I'm a conservative lesbian transwoman). But I don't know what role I'd take in that. It's not unease, I'm literally drawing a blank. Anybody else go through this?