Just felt like cheering myself up by sharing this story from a few months back. I went to a major anime convention and during one of my many trips to use the restroom, I was in the stall and heard a staffer confronting a girl in the bathroom. I could hear her
clearly feminine voice saying something like, "It's okay, I'm a girl! I'm just cosplaying a guy!" Presumably the staff member dropped the issue at that point after hearing her voice. So anyway, after I left the stall I walked by the same lady who said nothing whatsoever to me. Just reassured me and made me feel good. I was dressed like a real tart too.