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Did your sexuality change with transition?

Started by Rhonda333, November 23, 2015, 08:57:30 AM

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Rhonda333

I guess mine did. I was always Bi to a degree. However when dressed I preferred men. Now with transition, although non op, I prefer men exclusively. Anybody else?
I am a pre op MtF.
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Harley Quinn

I still prefer women... without going into the steamy details, they just get my motor humming! Women are just so sensual and alluring.
At what point did my life go Looney Tunes? How did it happen? Who's to blame?... Batman, that's who. Batman! It's always been Batman! Ruining my life, spoiling my fun! >:-)
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DianneM

I'm just starting transition and I guess I would describe myself as bi.... Ive always been attracted to both sexes but I'm 100% sure that as HT begins to take full effect I will be a heterosexual woman.... I just don't see myself being with a woman again....even at this early stage....
Hugs
Dianne
xo
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RachelsMantra

I think post-transition I am much more open to the idea of dating a man than I was pre-transition such that I would probably describe myself as pansexual but to be honest I am still mainly attracted to women and for the most part it's super hard for me to be impressed by/attracted to a guy. If I am on Tinder looking at ladies I say "Yes" to almost all of them but if I am looking at men I say "no" to almost all of them and I am much more picky. However, now that I have transitioned I am sexually attracted to the idea of a dominant man lusting over my body and having his way with me. But I am not so much interested in dating men or being romantic with men. It's mainly a sexual thing right now.

Not to mention there's that whole "toxic masculinity" thing and bro-culture, which I wouldn't touch with a ten-foot pole.
Started HRT on September 1st, 2015.
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FluffyPunk

I would have to say yes. I was always bisexual with primary interest in men, but as I began mi chemical evolution I met a wonderful ftm an fell madly in love with him. Were togeather now so I guess M pan? Idk, Bloody lables.....
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FluffyPunk

 Thinkin onnit m strangely in a hetro relationship....
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cindianna_jones

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BridgetYvonne

As a guy I was into girls but now that I have been in transition & will be a full girl by Apr '16, I 'm more into girls. Doubt I will want to be w/ a guy. I seem more at ease w/ girls. My sister Shasta says that I'm more calm as a girl then I was as a guy. She jokes that she wishes I would have done 'my change' as a teenager than at 27.   
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TG CLare

No. I liked women before I had my surgery and still do so I guess that makes me a lesbian. Mind you, if I met up with the right guy I might be tempted to try my new vagina out at least once.

Love,
Clare
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Shanade

As a male I used to be bi-sexual (50/50) but only had sex with girls. Penetration always felt wrong though so it was kind of ambigous... When I realized what was going on and started my transition I turned straight (or maybe bisexual 90M/10F)
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Lara1969

I was straight before and I am straight after transition. It just feels right to me. I am attracted to the opposite gender.
Happy girl from queer capital Berlin
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cindianna_jones

Quote from: Lara1969 on November 23, 2015, 02:21:09 PM
I was straight before and I am straight after transition. It just feels right to me. I am attracted to the opposite gender.

I've always attracted men. I wish I could attract women! Ha!

Cindi
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Northern Jane

Prior to transition I was absolutely straight (attracted to men) but within a few years of transition/SRS I found myself inclined toward Bi. All these decades later I figure I am 80 straight and 20% Bi.
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Mariah

I assumed coming into transition that I was A-Sexual because of the lack of any sexual drive or interest at all, but as I went through therapy and transition discovered what my sexuality had been all along. Hugs
Mariah
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warmbody28

change no. did i become more open about it yes
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noleen111

Mine did

Before hormones, I was straight (only into women).. The thought of being with a guy kinda grossed me out.

Somewhere along the line during my transition, the idea of been with a man did not gross me out and I started being attracted to them as well.

so post transition, well I am now bi-sexual, with more of an interest in men... so a straight woman with bi-sexual tendencies.  I am currently in a long term relationship with a man (dating 13 months now),  I love him to bits and I love being his girlfriend and maybe someday I would love to be his wife.
Enjoying ride the hormones are giving me... finally becoming the woman I always knew I was
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AmyC

I've been openly bi for a long time and I've been pretty equally into guys or girls.  I have been finding since starting HRT though that I'm noticing different things about men, like the way they smell and stuff, and I seem to be more generally attracted to men, at the moment anyway.  It might go back to a 50/50 split and this is a bit of a phase, I dont know.
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Christine Eryn

I've always been attracted to women and my years on E didn't disrupt that at all. My odd recent experience is the way I look now, men find me super attractive but the feeling is not mutual. I still get weak in the knees with a beautiful women. I can't help it!  :icon_eek:  Also now, good looking women speak to me like any other women and it's difficult to "hold back" and say something. I still like to look at the woman form and now I can stare at women in public without looking like a pervert because somehow that's not an odd thing. And now I genuinely am interested in what they are wearing.

Although now that I am in a weaker, softer body, I have had thoughts of having a good looking strong man have his way with me. There are some really really good looking guys out there but it's not something I seek.
"There was a sculptor, and he found this stone, a special stone. He dragged it home and he worked on it for months, until he finally finished. When he was ready he showed it to his friends and they said he had created a great statue. And the sculptor said he hadn't created anything, the statue was always there, he just cleared away the small peices." Rambo III
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Orchid

I'm not sure... I feel like my preference has become a bit more clear- like in taking away something distracting. I seem to be more interested in men, however, I have an indescribable attraction to women- it is something that I don't yet know how to define. I feel like my interests have rounded into something internal rather than simply aesthetics. Not that being attracted to the physical appearance is superficial, like I said I really don't know how to describe it.

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