Quote from: sparrow on December 07, 2015, 02:36:04 PM
I really wish Ben Carson would stop flaunting his sexuality. Ugh. Heterosexuals, amirite? Have you seen all of those pictures with Ben and Candy in them, standing shoulder to shoulder and smiling? So gross.
Know who flaunts their sexuality more than any other group of people I've interacted with? Heterosexual infantrymen. This time I'm rather serious when I say... gross.
This and this.
To be honest, I increasingly feel a bit uncomfortable when people display their heterosexuality, and with heterosexual content in movies and TV shows - *not* because I have anything against straight people or heterosexuality in itself, but because it reminds me of the heteronormativity we face even in more liberal societies, given the overrepresentation of straight couples in media, and the fact that straight people never have to consider whether it's safe to display affection publicly, or fear how people will react if you mention your partner.
So obviously, my problem isn't with people "flaunting" their heterosexuality, it's with heteronormativity. But the fact that people can "flaunt" their heterosexuality without even being perceived as "flaunters", is a huge part of heteronormativity. And even here, in one of the most liberal cities in the world, there are still gay bashings and nasty comments even though most of the time gay couples can show affection safely. But those admittedly few episodes still add that little voice in the back of your head telling you you should be careful about what you do publicly, which is something straight cis people don't even have to consider. And when I see straight PDA in public, I can't help but being reminded of this. Which is sad, since I really wish I could just think "oh that's so cute, they're lucky to be in love" and be happy for them.