Ive found some on amazon I like that are not to expensive. I was gonna buy one. It's just the straps are so close to the neck, Im afraid someone might see like where I work for example. I found ones that wont bulge through clothes now it's a strap issue. Any ideas on what to do? I just dont want any questions or odd looks is all.

It's a common dilemma . . . I wore a simple a-cup bra, round necked t-shirt,  heavy broadcloth shirts and wore a jacket (was an office environment).  It worked for a few months until I was out 24x7. 

I get it and you'll find a way; we always do . . . Rachel

'Kay I know my gender marker is M here but I still wear sports bras + don't want them to be seen... I've got one good one, and it's hard to tell looking at it why it doesn't seem to poke out under my t-shirt - the only thing I can think of is that it's lower cut. Even though most of them seem to be racer-backs, they're not all the exact same shape. The thing is, there's no way to tell until you try it on... You might want to order a bunch (scary for the bank account i know) and try them all on, and then send back the ones that don't work + get a refund. That's how I used to find regular bras that fitted too.

Also looking for low-impact ones, they tend to have thinner straps more like a normal bra.

I ordered two Fruit of the Loom racerback sports bras that came from Amazon and as soon as they arrived my wife swiped both and told me to order four more. If a shirt has a loose neck the straps will show though.

You might also look at leisure/sleep bras. They tend to be sheer and less bulky than sports bras. I wear one under a T-shirt and button down, and not only can no one see it, no one can feel it in the event of an unexpected hug.

try genie bra, I am running into the opposite problem, despite sholders that are broader than most women the straps keep slipping a bit when I am working. It has to be some sorta conspiracy to repress women by forceing them to spend all there time fixing there bra rather than getting things done..its the only logical explination.

Serena

I looked up a genie bra on amazon which lead to more sports bras. I found and bought one on amazon this morning. The straps are further apart from the shoulder which is great. It's a sports bra and NOT expensive at all. Atleast I can get an idea of if any bumps can be seen or not when wearing it. I just hope it gets here quick.