After months of Deliberation I have finally found a name that I like and meets with some criteria that I wanted. I won't be doing anything official with my name for a few months yet but coming to a decision was the hard part.
I don't know that I can do anything about changing it on here or not but I will be going my the name Elizabeth in the real world which I will wait and see what derivative of Elizabeth most people use...Liz, Libby ,Beth or some such derivative. I am starting to change my name and use it when I can so I can get used to it.