*Update*
Today, out of nowhere, I just noticed a significant decrease in swelling. My jaw looked so beautiful and chin was nice a pointy (but not too pointy), and he results from the buccal fat removal are starting to become apparent and so far I LOVE the effect it had! Last minute decision by the surgeon and boy am I glad he decided on it (there was no extra charge for it, so obviously not a US surgeon). This is only a few weeks out. I can't wait to see what the first and subsequent months have to offer! The nose is still very swollen, yet more defined than before, since it was a revision. I'm just waiting patiently. So happy about today, I really needed a glimpse of what was done!
SamSparks, of course you can get w very feminine jaw, it's all a matter of choosing the right surgeon. You might not be able to get the exact jaw you want, due to where the bone ends and nerves begin, but say you have a wide face: women have wide faces too. The objective should be to get your facial width within what's average for a woman with a wide face. About the jaw angle, I think softening is preferable to elimination. When the jaw angle is tinkered with too much there's that weird banana face effect, and the head often looks too small for the body, making broad shoulders look broader. Basically get the jaw width from right before the angle down to the chin taken in a lot, have the chin height shortened and the chin made nice and feminine in shape, and unless you have very flared jaw angles, just gently soften them up. The mandibular angle itself is far less important than the rest of the jaw width and chin contour in many cases. Did any of this make sense? I'm really tired!