So I was at this tiny little corner Mexican restaurant with a friend, and it might have been the best damn Mexican food I'd ever had in my life. He's unemployed right now and strapped for cash, and for once in my life, I have a good job. So I payed for both of us. I didn't have any cash on me, and I hesitantly used my debit card. After I gave it to the waiter, I murmured to my friend that I didn't like to use my card, because it has my boy name on it and thus outs me.

A couple minutes later, I get my card back with a receipt, and my (very boy) name has "Mrs" in front of it.   

And then this happened again a week later at a different place!

Very cool Mrs. Mugwort!

That is wonderful! I'm so happy to hear when something goes in our favor.

Hugs
Lyndsey

As my Jewish friend says, "mazel tof!"  (More or less, "Congratulations!")  When you're feeling anxious or vulnerable, even a small act of kindness or validation feels wonderful.