Quote from: barbie on December 26, 2015, 07:30:24 AM
Nobody here can pass 100% as a cis. Simply, it is impossible for any m2f transgender girl to pass 100% whatever she has done, including SRS.

You look just beautiful, more than most ordinary women, and passing is not an issue.

barbie~~

I'm disagree with you when it comes to "Nobody can pass 100%". I think it's depend from person to person. Some women doesn't pass 100%, other pass as cis women and you can't tell if they are trans or not. I have seen a couple of trans women who look 110% cisgender, because they have a feminine look from the start and are lucky with their genes.

It's same with trans guys. Some of them pass 110% as cis, other don't. People are difference.

Quote from: Lyndsey on December 26, 2015, 06:51:14 PM

Hi Autumn
my guess is you will be one pretty girl. But as the others have said the hair need to be longer. I not sure if you plan on staying at the job were you are working but it you are going to you mite want to talk to someone in HR or your boss and let them know that you will be transitioning and not be held to the short hair rule as you are now. The law should protect you about discrimination also. So if they fired you because of it you would have a legal avenue.

Hug's
Lyndsey

Thank you Lyndsey!  I have to admit though, every time I see myself in the mirror, I feel so terrible and see all the parts that I hate.  Heck, I've been thinking about giving up on the whole process.

As for work, the administration is fine and pretty progressive.  The only thing is, since it is such a alpha male dominated field and work place, There is no way that I could come out.  I'm not worried about harassment in the traditional sense, more so discomfort, avoidance, gossip, and ostracism from many of my co-workers.  I plan on being there for another year and a half before I leave. 

Quote from: Melanie ♡ on December 26, 2015, 08:48:24 PM
I agree with barbie, with longer hair you would definitely pass... Sometimes we're too hard on yourselves, you probably don't need ffs, but I guess it can make you feel better about yourself. Happy holidays!

Hey Melanie, thanks.  long hair would be great but it isn't so in my immediate future.  I do agree that we tend to be our own worst critics.  I guess it comes with the territory.

Bought myself a MUCH better webcam today, as well as wearing some more foundation, I am happy with the results 🙂

My hair is kind of naff, but I am aiming for a more tomboy look anyway, so I still need to grow it out / style it more.

http://imgur.com/a/Znatm

I understand you archlord, I feel the same way, I really need to get ffs to be happy with myself, but I don't think I need to for passing, at least i hope so (You don't need it for passing neither when you have long hair), and thanks Jade & Valkria <3

Quote from: Melanie ♡ on December 27, 2015, 01:31:56 PM
I understand you archlord, I feel the same way, I really need to get ffs to be happy with myself, but I don't think I need to for passing, at least i hope so (You don't need it for passing neither when you have long hair), and thanks Jade & Valkria <3

You don't need ffs at all.  OMG, some of you girls kill me. 

Quote from: Sebby Michelango on December 27, 2015, 12:00:43 PM
I'm disagree with you when it comes to "Nobody can pass 100%". I think it's depend from person to person. Some women doesn't pass 100%, other pass as cis women and you can't tell if they are trans or not. I have seen a couple of trans women who look 110% cisgender, because they have a feminine look from the start and are lucky with their genes.

It's same with trans guys. Some of them pass 110% as cis, other don't. People are difference.

Very well said I agree with you Sebby

Hugs
Lyndsey

I hope everyone had a lovely Christmas? I ate too much but it's lovely having a few days off work and I can't wait for new year's now  😉 Anyway I had a nice day today; went to see Star Wars with my friend and had dinner afterwards!! I've also been wearing trousers too much recently so actually went out in a dress for once lol!!!











Also I got some nail art stuff for Christmas 





And does my bum look big in this? I really don't know what's going on there 

Quote from: stephaniec on December 26, 2015, 11:52:58 PM
I like the no wig better

I'm with you on that. Not a lot of girls can wear short hair (cis or trans, doesn't matter), but you certainly have the right face for it if you ask me Archlord!

Quote from: Missy D on December 27, 2015, 05:56:29 PM
I hope everyone had a lovely Christmas? I ate too much but it's lovely having a few days off work and I can't wait for new year's now  😉 Anyway I had a nice day today; went to see Star Wars with my friend and had dinner afterwards!! I've also been wearing trousers too much recently so actually went out in a dress for once lol!!!











Also I got some nail art stuff for Christmas 





And does my bum look big in this? I really don't know what's going on there 

Oh Missy
You look so pretty here and I have to say I would never in a million years think for one minute that you were not a cis women! You are beautiful. I wish I was young again. So sweet. Love the dress were did you get that?
Hug's
Lyndsey

I look like I play dota2 and read manga don't I [emoji24] [emoji24] [emoji24] [emoji24] [emoji24]  [emoji6] 
This is me pre-hrt ..... In should begin within the next few weeks





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Archlord, your absolutely gorgeous and not far away from having a natural womans haircut. Ive always been attracted to shorter cuts on women and trust me your amazingly beautiful!

~Shan~

Quote from: Valkria01 on December 27, 2015, 07:25:26 PM
I look like I play dota2 and read manga don't I [emoji24] [emoji24] [emoji24] [emoji24] [emoji24]  [emoji6] 
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You look great already it will only be a big plus and make you feel a lot better about yourself. I Love the Braids.

Hugs
Lyndsey

I do not celebrate Christmas, but I had dinner with my friends at a Spanish restaurant. And everyday I drink red wine.
Just ago i n the morning:



Do I pass?

barbie~~

Quote from: Lyndsey on December 27, 2015, 07:34:36 PM
You look great already it will only be a big plus and make you feel a lot better about yourself. I Love the Braids.

Hugs
Lyndsey

Hey thanks!

Quote from: barbie on December 27, 2015, 07:45:28 PM
I do not celebrate Christmas, but I had dinner with my friends at a Spanish restaurant. And everyday I drink red wine.
Just ago i n the morning:



Do I pass?

barbie~~

You most defiantly pass Barbie as a matter of fact you are very pretty

Hugs Lyndsey

Girl Mode:







Boy mode :



I know theyre editted but theres been no airbrushing done i just enjoy playing with lighting, focus and sometimes borders.

~Shan~

Took a few photos today with some of the clothes a friend gave me recently. (Yes, I'm wearing a bra with socks.)

Quote from: barbie on December 27, 2015, 07:45:28 PM
I do not celebrate Christmas, but I had dinner with my friends at a Spanish restaurant. And everyday I drink red wine.
Just ago i n the morning:



Do I pass?

barbie~~

I was shocked when you said that you weren't even on HRT.  I was like, what the heck?!  Seriously, you look great Barbie!

Quote from: Vinyl Scratch on December 27, 2015, 01:18:30 PM
Bought myself a MUCH better webcam today, as well as wearing some more foundation, I am happy with the results 🙂

My hair is kind of naff, but I am aiming for a more tomboy look anyway, so I still need to grow it out / style it more.

http://imgur.com/a/Znatm

I can see you removed all the facial hair and you do improve. But you still doesn't pass yet. Even you have some softness and roundness in your face, you still have a bit square/angular that move you to the more masculine side. So I would say you look androgen. But because your hairstyle and clothes style, you appear more masculine. HRT, change of the clothes style and hairstyle is the only key I know about that would make you pass better.

Quote from: Valkria01 on December 27, 2015, 07:25:26 PM
I look like I play dota2 and read manga don't I [emoji24] [emoji24] [emoji24] [emoji24] [emoji24]  [emoji6] 
This is me pre-hrt ..... In should begin within the next few weeks





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At HRT you would off course pass. You have androgen facial features, so it would be no problem. It's a big chance people would guess you're a girl now too, if they suddenly saw you at the street.

Quote from: barbie on December 27, 2015, 07:45:28 PM
I do not celebrate Christmas, but I had dinner with my friends at a Spanish restaurant. And everyday I drink red wine.
Just ago i n the morning:



Do I pass?

barbie~~

Yes, you pass.