Well I decided to come out to my mother, it was my birthday of all days lol, just seemed fitting. It wasn't easy but once I started it became easier. When I was done she looked at me and told me well I kind of figured it was something like that, and told it doesn't mater who I am I will always be her kid ( she didn't say daughter, but did not say son either so ill take it) and would accept me no matter what. Unbelievable I told here, wish I would of known this sooner I wouldn't of waited to my late 40's. Made me so happy I almost got a speeding ticket on my way to therapist appointment, couldn't wait to tell her, it felt like such a great accomplishment.