I am thinking of a packer for use at the gay bar where the guys get all feely. Which packer passes the grope test the best? I would rather not spend that much money since I do not think I will use it that much but I am not restricted on the amount I can pay.

Will a Mr. Limpy work?

The Mr. Limpy does. If that's all you need it for, that's what I'd go for.

extra small size the best or will it stick out funny? I wear hanes boxer briefs so if I sew up the flap will they secure it enough?

I think it would depend on your size and comfort level. I'm about 5'5" and beefier, and I like something in the 3.5" - 4" range. I've never packed with anything larger, I think the bulge would look awkward on my frame. Keep in mind too that most guys aren't larger than that while soft, so if you got something bigger it may look like a perma-boner.

I'd say get the XS or S and some kind of harness or jockstrap that you can wear under your underwear to keep it in place. I tried just doing the boxer briefs and it still moved around a lot. Plus there's a chance of it escaping when you go to the bathroom if it's not hooked into something.

I'm smaller than that so I'll go with the xs. Looks like I can get a jockstrap at walmart. Thanks.

Oh one last thing, what is the care like to keep it clean? Soap and water?

Did you get yours from fleshjack? I see they have them in skin colours.

I have a super thin harness that I got with my PeeCock that I use. Super comfy, forget it's there. Before that I was using a jockstrap that worked fairly well. Not as secure as a harness, but still kept everything in place.

For care and general cleanliness, I would use baby powder on it while wearing it to keep things fresher. I don't know if that's recommended or if there are issues with that. I assume it's fine, since we use it on babies nether regions. I actually wear mine 24/7 so I shower with it on and ring out the harness while I'm toweling off. I just use body wash to clean everything. Something anti-bacterial might be better?

I got mine from Packer Locker back when they were actually fulfilling orders But FTM Essentials has it here (under a different name with slightly different sizes - they say at the bottom of the description that this is a Mr. Limpy):

http://www.ftmessentials.com/collections/packers/products/classic-packy

I got "vanilla" because my skin tone is basically Casper the friendly ghost.

Finally got the thing ordered after it would not process on the website. They are very friendly on the phone and speak good english. She even went and physically checked to make sure it was in stock. Said they would ship it out today.

Quote from: Alexthecat on January 11, 2016, 09:16:28 AM
I'm smaller than that so I'll go with the xs. Looks like I can get a jockstrap at walmart. Thanks.

Me Limpy xs is perfect with jock strap. The size is the same as a natal male's and the jock strap will keep it from poking up. Until the EZP that is the combo I wore for 15 years.

Quote from: Alexthecat on January 11, 2016, 10:00:23 AM
Oh one last thing, what is the care like to keep it clean? Soap and water?

Soap and water.  Let dry by itself.  It is cyber skin so it is sticky. Cover it with corn starch not talc powder.  I personally always used Kamasutra Honey Dust. Nice consistency and it was tasty for a women's mouth.

My dick arrived today! It was way more squishy than I thought. It looks like there is a chunk missing off the head and along the shaft has lines in it like someone took something sharp to it?

Quote from: Alexthecat on January 13, 2016, 03:01:05 PM
My dick arrived today! It was way more squishy than I thought. It looks like there is a chunk missing off the head and along the shaft has lines in it like someone took something sharp to it?

Yeah, mine has a weird slice on the head as well. Probably something to do with the mold used? It didn't affect anything in terms of using it though.

Bad news is walmart does not sell jockstraps. Good news is mc sports down the road does. This jockstrap has a velcro pouch to hold the cup so I put the packer in there. There will be no bouncing on the bathroom floor for this dick. I am debating if I am to wear the packer over or under my underwear. I think if I wear it over it will stay cleaner. For positioning is the flat backing to start where the crotch bone begins to stop? If that is correct then the dick part sticks out and the jockstrap makes it bend into the bulge straight down or does the dick like hang sideways?

I wear it under the underwear. Just for safety. But if it's completely enclosed in a pouch you should be fine either way. I've always worn it with the dick aligned with where my dick is, flat back against me. And you can position it however you like after that. I've left it hanging down, I've pushed it to the side, I've flipped it up. All depends what you're comfortable with.

Just a thought, since it's a gay bar and half the guys there are probably just wearing jockstraps anyways, why not wear the jock by itself? I think guys would be more likely to notice the 2 layers of underwear than they would the feel of the packer. Just an idea.

That being said, I've tried a lot of different packers and stp's and been to a lot of gay bars. The only one I ever had an issue with was the peecock gen2. Its really hard to pack with anyways, but it feels weird to the touch, especially through clothing. Mr. Limpy was my first packer and it still works great.

As for cleaning, be careful if you are wearing it inside dark colored underwear because mine got kinda stained over time. But I've heard if you wash it frequently that won't happen.

Quote from: Alexthecat on January 14, 2016, 03:56:29 PM
Bad news is walmart does not sell jockstraps. Good news is mc sports down the road does. This jockstrap has a velcro pouch to hold the cup so I put the packer in there. There will be no bouncing on the bathroom floor for this dick. I am debating if I am to wear the packer over or under my underwear. I think if I wear it over it will stay cleaner. For positioning is the flat backing to start where the crotch bone begins to stop? If that is correct then the dick part sticks out and the jockstrap makes it bend into the bulge straight down or does the dick like hang sideways?

The shaft should be in line with the clitoris.