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When you wake up next day, would you like to wake up as cisgender...

Started by Sebby Michelango, January 17, 2016, 01:00:07 PM

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When you wake up next day, would you like to wake up as cisgender and be cis rest of your life?

Yes, I want to be cisgender
No, I'm happy about being trans
I don't know
No, I'm happy about being genderfluid/genderqueer/other non-binary...etc...
No, I'm happy about being intersex

Sebby Michelango

When you wake up next day, would you like to wake up as cisgender and be cis rest of your life?
If you could be cisgender when you wake up next day, all the papers, ID and passport match your gender and your family suddenly only remember you as the gender you always have been, would you like it? When you suddenly become cisgender, your body anatomy would suddenly match your gender identity. That would say a trans man becomes a cis-man and a trans woman become a cis-woman.
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Elis

I have no idea. On the one hand it would obviously make my life a lot easier on the other I would like to someday help the trans community; and believe I could do that more effectively if I was also trans like the people I'd be helping. I'm also quite feminine and queer; so even if I was cis I'd still be considered an outsider. Which would you choose?
They/them pronouns preferred.



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November Fox

I´m not happy about NOT being cisgender, but I wouldn´t want to wake up and suddenly be CIS, either.
My life has been an incredible rollercoaster of experiences, and if I were to suddenly wake up and be CIS, for me that would mean that the entire history I had up until that point would sort of not count anymore (since CIS would be born in a different body...)

As much as I hate the difference between my body and my mind, I can´t just throw away all the lessons that I´ve learned, and all the lessons I´ll continue to learn.
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Kylo

At this point I'd like to, because it would  mean the 10 years I put into the relationship with my other half wouldn't be a complete waste. We might even live happy ever after.

But since that's not going to happen... I'll say no.
"If the freedom of speech is taken away, then dumb and silent we may be led, like sheep to the slaughter."
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iKate

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Katiepie

As with iKate, I would be up for it to have had a quote normal cisfemale unquote life, uterus and ovaries included as so I can live a so to speak life that I would love to have.
Though if it means my memory of what I am going through as of current, of not having knowing what I went through to get there. Then no.
If the reality of me waking up as cisfemale, and i have just memories of what it would be growing up as such, I would still go through my own hardships, and the reality of me being me for my family and everything would be nice. But I don't want to forget the current, it may be hard, but this is who I am.

Kate <3
My life motto: Wake Up and BE Awesome!

"Every minute of your life that you allow someone to dictate your emotions, is a minute of your life you are allowing them to control you." - a dear friend of mine.

Stay true to yourself no matter the consequence, for this is your life, your decision, your trust in which will shape your future. Believe in yourself, if you don't then no one will.
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Kellam

I am thrilled with being the trans tomboy I am. I would never change or take back a millisecond of my 37 plus years. I'm looking forward to whatever life I have left to go and I would only ever want to live it as I stand right now.
https://atranswomanstale.wordpress.com This is my blog A Trans Woman's Tale -Chris Jen Kellam-Scott

"You must always be yourself, no matter what the price. It is the highest form of morality."   -Candy Darling



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Rawb

In a heartbeat.
A lot of the negativity in my life, and body issues and social issues were because I spent over 20 years not knowing I was trans. To wake up and be a cis male, with proper working genitals would be a dream come reality.
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stephaniec

I like being trans , but it sure would of saved  me a whole lot of grief. plus I'd probably have a husband and kids which would be nice.
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2fish

I like being trans, even if no one outside my circle knows. I have a very unique perspective on life. I wouldn't take any of it back. Now, ask me if I wake up tomorrow and I will have accepting parents, then YES PLEASE & THANK YOU. lol
http://www.gender158.com (A Trans-Masculine Resource Website)
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kristincardigan

Just imagining how much I might save on medical costs alone makes me say yes. Imagining being able to live my life as the person I was meant to be makes me say definitely.


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Asche

Ah, yes, one of the perennial topics at Susans.org

Being trans is only one of the ways I'm not normal, so you'd have to ask if I'd like to be "normal" as well.

If I were cis -- cis male or cis female, doesn't matter -- I would be a completely different person.  Would you be willing to be transformed into someone else, especially if that someone else were, say, a famous bigot?  And, of course, since you would be that bigot, you wouldn't want to do anything about your bigotry.

People have been harrassing me and bullying me and ostracizing me since I was old enough to talk because I wasn't "normal" enough, so I've got a bit of a chip on my shoulder about becoming "normal."  At this point, the "normals" can either accept me as I am or just go <anatomically improbable and physically impossible activity deleted.>

tl;dr:  heck, no!!!
"...  I think I'm great just the way I am, and so are you." -- Jazz Jennings



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warlockmaker

I'm blessed with the journey I have taken both as a male and today as a full trans woman. We are special to have the chance to live and experience the wonders of two lives. How we live those lives is what defines who we are and I, for one would not wish it any other way.
When we first start our journey the perception and moral values all dramatically change in wonderment. As we evolve further it all becomes normal again but the journey has changed us forever.

SRS January 21st,  2558 (Buddhist calander), 2015
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Ashley Allison

In this morning, no questions yes. To ease my dysphoria right now, I started writing a story yesterday based on this very premise.  The thought are a release from the pressures and strains of everyday life.  In all actuality? I feel it would give me the validation and to permission to act as my true self, even though I know my life would not be perfect.  My male persona exists in an acting realm, and I don't feel that would be the case being female.
Fly this girl as high as you can
Into the wild blue
Set me free
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Sebby Michelango

If I could continue the life without starting the whole thing at new and still have some of the older memories, why not becoming cis tomorrow? If that was possible, I would off course say yes to become a cis guy. It would be cool if the body, passport, names, my relative/family/friends memories change etc. would happening over the night. Then I could live a cis-life and my family think I am what I am supposed to be. In my passport and all the other papers it's correct gender mark and name. I don't get it why many people says no to become cisgender. I would say yes if all this were possible.
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Devlyn

When you wake up next day, would you like to wake up as cisgender...

Never! I go to bed Irish. I expect, and want, to wake up Irish. It's the same with being transgender.

Hugs, Devlyn
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DanielleA

If I could wake up tommorow morning as a biological woman it would fulfill an early childhood dream. And noone could callenge my of identity. But, I am honestly glad that I wasn't born biologically female. I had a really harsh childhood and I would have been an even bigger target for dirty men while I was walking extreme distances alone at night.
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Cheska

I would. I didn't vote on the poll though, I felt it was too restrictive.
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Pizzaparty78

Although I've learned a lot from my experiences, no doubt would I want to wake up cis. I used to pray as a little kid to wake up as a "real" boy. Then I could father my own children and wouldnt have to worry about surgeries and all that..
"It's not about what's in your pants, but what's in your heart..."



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green27

Absolutely,

I'd love to sit down and have a long conversation with someone who is glad they have a trans identity. I'm honestly curious about their perspective because it is so different than mine.

My life would have been significantly different if I was born a boy. So much of my childhood was difficult because of the way that I fought the feminine role I was being forced into.

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