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have you ever heard comments about your transition

Started by stephaniec, February 22, 2016, 12:59:22 AM

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Just curious about whether you've ever overheard a conversation about your transition. I was in Starbucks tonight where I have been going for at least 15 years. Only one Barista  knows for sure because I told him. I'm guessing most others know from just talking about my changes because they've been pretty drastic over 2 years plus the fact that I've been more brave about wearing my dresses more openly getting ready for summer and my breasts showing so much. Well, I don't mind at the moment because it needs to happen and I just need to put the past behind and be free, Well, I was in Starbucks and a Barista  and this other guy that I know. but haven't talked to for over 2 years because he pissed me off about something, were talking about 15 feet away and the way they were talking it sounded like they were talking  about how I've changed , which I really don't care because I'd be wondering myself if I knew someone who had turned female from male in front of my eyes. there is a new barista they just hired and he's referring to me as ma'am so maybe that's what started them talking. I mean I'm friends with them both even though I  haven't talked to one of them because of something which is another story, so it doesn't matter. I just never felt it an obligation to tell anyone. Has anyone caught a conversation, with or without intention of you hearing it , about your transition. I think I look different.
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