Changing your name in all these places can be a pain as you have to out yourself to strangers to do it, most of the people I have dealt with have been nice enough though.
With my bank account I changed names the day I got court decree they made a copy of it and made the changes, woman that helped me was very friendly and easy to talk with.
Home loan I called them and just told them what I wanted to do, I emailed them copies of court decree and they changed it.
Car loan with a credit union wanted to see my new drivers license, didn't have it yet so went back the next week with it. About 2 weeks later I got new payment book with my name on it.
I read that credit reports will start using the new name as they are tied to your SSN, not sure of this because all the reports I can see are prior to the change.
House deed you need to file a quick claim deed transferring title to your new name, I haven't done this yet so not much else to say about it.
Home owners insurance requires deed be changed to update, so again not done yet.