Hi, I'm Kolby (or at least, that's the name I'm trying out right now), I'm 23, and recently (within the past year or so) I came to the realisation that I'm trans. I'm still coming to terms with it, and still questioning my gender a lot. I am most likely non binary (of some description, I realise that's an umbrella term), but sometimes feel quite 'boyish' and am unsure how I feel about this. Questioning is pretty hard and causes me a lot of stress, but hopefully I'll get things figured out eventually.

Other stuff about me: I like art, and fantasy, stories, and videogames. I enjoy making comic books too 🙂

Welcome Kolby!  I'm in a similar boat, within the past year realizing I'm transgender, non-binary but identifying more female than male most of the time and sometimes very female; though I express masculine and have no particular plans to transition to anything else, at least not soon, still need to sort a lot out.  I understand the stress but mostly I feel much more comfortable recognizing that I'm a girl or at least partially a girl and partially a guy, or something like that, I don't really know - even if for now I have to express masculine for most work and social occasions.

Hugs Kolby and again, welcome!
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Welcome to Susan's Place. As you have discovered, non binary can be confusing at times. I don't have enough information to give you much help but I have a link to our Wiki that may give you some terms and definitions to explore. The fluid/bigender seems to be pretty common and if you think that might be you, there is a fluid thread in the non binary area. If there is anything I can help you with, let me know.

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Hi Kolby 

Welcome to Susan's    Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Hugs

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Hey Kolby!  I've identified as trans a year, and while I feel comfortable with my gender, I'm still confused by it.  I'm happy when I can express myself, so that's what's important.