Sorry if Sebby offended you, but to be fair, you did post in a topic that asked for opinions; some people may agree with his opinion and others may not, but it is only a subjective observation based on two dimensional photographs that do not show the entire "picture". If you are happy with your appearance, and accepted as a woman in the real world, then that is all that truly matters. The fabulous thread is more of a celebratory thread, so perhaps that would be a better option if you do not want opinions about whether a picture is passing or not.