I notice straight guys sometimes act gay for jest, but theres a particular guy who acts too sexual with me even though hes joking. I do not give off sexual vibes at work even avoid it at all costs. 3 weeks ago he ask for my size (he was joking), today he said I look cute with my haircut (twice), and then he touch my face with his hat. I told him I dont like my face being touch. Im not trying to be rude but I dont like being touch in general. And then another guy imply I dont like strippers (hes my friend but I notice he will turn against me if to make fun of me: generally nothing serious). The other guy who touch my face if its okay for him to caress it.

Just annoying. But hes joking...

Welcome to womanhood. You have just received your first sexual harassment. If they don't stop when you tell them to stop, your decision becomes put up with it or complain to management.

Quote from: Dena on February 27, 2016, 03:43:58 PM
Welcome to womanhood. You have just received your first sexual harassment. If they don't stop when you tell them to stop, your decision becomes put up with it or complain to management.

Im not going to complain. Im not trying to look like a woman either..in fact I look more manly at the moment. It just makes me wonder why straight guys act gay.

He's coming on to you.  He's not joking.  Many confident guys will joke about sexuality... but the ones who seem to be trying too hard probably are.  For many bi guys, coming out is a huge risk.  They make jokes so that they can deny that they're flirting.

Quote from: sparrow on February 27, 2016, 09:12:32 PM
They make jokes so that they can deny that they're flirting.

Ah, good ol' passive-aggressive emotionally abusive 'joking'. Fun stuff. It's a horrible consequence of men being out-of-touch with their emotions, losing empathy, and not knowing or understanding how to behave properly. Not saying that's the case here, I'm just ranting, but many guys really just need to tone their s**t down and leave other people alone... Doesn't matter if he's legit flirting, pretend flirting, or whatever. I think he needs to be told off. Also doesn't matter if he's bi and risking anything, it's no excuse if the other person isn't reciprocating.