wow you look good in them. they're pretty flat to me. keep in mind that bigger guys have bigger muscles and more fat which mean their man boobs are bigger too.
i think it's the style that makes it look like it's flopping on the end and not fitting you right. if you can breathe in it though, it's better be the right size. lol. i mean you'll have to walk in it, turn around in it. you have to feel some certain comfort wearing it.
i ordered the long tank one that looks like it's an undershirt if you wear a shirt on top of it. it just looks more natural to me. plus, you can tuck it in, you don't have to worry about the end sticking out or flapping anywhere.
i ordered from gc2b too and it was exactly my size. though i couldn't break in by all means. i had to exchange for a bigger one. after receiving it, i had to throw it in the washing machine just to break the material a little bit. it's good now.