Quote from: suzifrommd on March 13, 2016, 06:52:44 AM
It still surprises me, when I post here about this, the number of trans people who back the gatekeeping model, who are comfortable with the notion that doctors and medical folks know our gender better than we do.
I'm not comfortable with the traditional gatekeeping model, especially as it virtually always consists of cis people, and medical people at that (who are on the average
less able to understand or appreciate perspectives different from their own) judging whether we are "really trans" or "trans enough" for medical transition services.
On the other hand, right now, I'm getting HRT under the Informed Consent model, and I feel pretty unsupported. They kind of go, "you want hormones? what dose? okay, here's a prescription. See you in six months." I'd really like a little more hand-holding. What I'd really like is something a little closer (but not close) to the gatekeeper model, but by people who actually can
understand and appreciate what we're going through. It probably means trans people, since most cis people will never be able to understand. I'm fortunate that I have a therapist who has a lot of experience with trans people and transitioning, but she and my endo don't talk to one another and there isn't any mechanism or protocol for them to do so.
Atul Gawande (a surgeon who writes essays on medical practice) wrote an essay ("Whose body is it, anyway?", in
Complications) about the current trend to place all medical decision-making in the hands of the patients, and he points out that sometimes that's just as hard on the patients as having the doctors make all the decisions. What patients usually are happiest with is for the doctor to understand and respect where the patient is coming from, and then use the doctor's greater experience and training to do the treatment that the patient would have chosen, if they had that experience and training and weren't so personally involved.
The problem with the old model was that it was adverserial: providers presumed that patients were wrong or lying and it was up to the patient to prove to the providers that they deserved the desired treatment. Trust was pretty much excluded. Couldn't it be possible to set up a
cooperative model, where medical providers trust and try to understand their patients and see it as their job to provide treatments that are best
from the patient's perspective?