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Besides your genitals what part of your body do you most need to change

Started by stephaniec, March 20, 2016, 03:20:25 PM

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noleen111

My feet.

I don't have huge feet, but I am on the bigger side for a women and I dont always get the cute shoes I want in my size. I am limited to the styles of shoes I can wear. I wear a lot of heels to make my feet look smaller.

also i think I have a big "big toe" and does not look very feminine and I do get a little self conscious when wearing sandals. I have found wearing nail polish helps make my feet look very feminine.
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MichaelaLJ1972

I'm pretty dysphoric about my waistline and EXTEMELY dysphoric about my body hair and the hair on my head. If I could just magically get rid of all the hair on my body I'd be pretty happy... and then a hair transplant to fix the top of my head, heaven it would be :)
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SofiN

Facial hair being killed off is my #1 want right now. Hopefully soon the NHS can help fund me with that.

Other than that I guess adam's apple? It isn't that large but it would give me some peace of mind if it wasn't so visible.
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Wild Flower

My voice. I think its more important than any specific beauty feature.

"Anyone who believes what a cat tells him deserves all he gets."
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Wild Flower

On the plus, knowing my body proportions are nearly identical to Kate Winslet doesnt make me feel as dysphoric anymore. Same shoe size, similar height, and based on pictures... She looks like she has a similar head shape to me.
"Anyone who believes what a cat tells him deserves all he gets."
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MichelleZelda

Body hair. Causes me no end of grief, even though I'm not terribly hairy

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allisonsteph

First my face, then bigger boobs and a smaller waist. Getting the downstairs plumbing remodeled is actually pretty low on the list. If I could go to sleep tonight and wake up in the morning with the proper equipment with no surgery, no pain, no complications, and no dilation I'd be a happy girl. My desire to be properly equipped does not outweigh my fear of surgery. Hell, I'm afraid of getting a bad haircut, and that will grow back.


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Kimberley Beauregard

I think the main one is migration of upper body fat to my hips and arse and slight reshaping of my face. I can mostly deal with the rest.
- Kim
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KayXo

Quote from: allisonsteph on March 29, 2016, 06:32:16 PM
If I could go to sleep tonight and wake up in the morning with the proper equipment with no surgery, no pain, no complications, and no dilation I'd be a happy girl.

The pain was minimal in my case, there were no complications except some hair inside my vagina that is purely aesthetically annoying and I haven't dilated in years (still deep enough). I have orgasms, self-lubricate. So, it's really not that bad at all and worth it, in the end. These days, the risks are quite low with this type of surgery.

Quote from: Kimberley Beauregard on March 29, 2016, 06:47:19 PM
I think the main one is migration of upper body fat to my hips and arse and slight reshaping of my face. I can mostly deal with the rest.

Just to clarify, fat does not "migrate" from one place to another but rather body fat is less likely to deposit in some areas (abdominal, with estrogen) and more likely to deposit in other areas like the hips, butt, thighs, face, upper arms, breasts. Over time, these hormonal changes change the shape of your outer body. Upper body muscle will somewhat shrink but it takes time, especially if you started with a lot and sometimes, changes are negligible. 
I am not a medical doctor, nor a scientist - opinions expressed by me on the subject of HRT are merely based on my own review of some of the scientific literature over the last decade or so, on anecdotal evidence from women in various discussion forums that I have come across, and my personal experience

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Post-op since late 2005
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mac1

Quote from: allisonsteph on March 29, 2016, 06:32:16 PM
First my face, then bigger boobs and a smaller waist. Getting the downstairs plumbing remodeled is actually pretty low on the list. If I could go to sleep tonight and wake up in the morning with the proper equipment with no surgery, no pain, no complications, and no dilation I'd be a happy girl. My desire to be properly equipped does not outweigh my fear of surgery. Hell, I'm afraid of getting a bad haircut, and that will grow back.


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Well said girl.  I have wished that for many years!
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Ashley Allison

Definitely my chest, for sure my chest.  I look down and see... My almost boobs, but really just because I have been slightly overweight to make it look that way.  Can't wait one day to have boobs of my own. 
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stephaniec

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Floritine

1 - my hairy legs hate having to shave then once a week, and having to shave my face and take a razor with me when I stay overnight when not at home,
2 - being over weight but being on Seroquel makes it hard to loose any,
3 - my big skies cause I cant go to normal shops and buy shoes that I like when I have shopping urges and the only way that would fix the problem is to lop of the toes,

Cheers Tracy
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Rachel_Christina

I have been lucky in that I would not say I'm terribly dysphoric! I alwasy new I was different, but delt with it! My mind is extremely clear!, and since I came out to my girlfriend life has been soooo good! And my mind even clearer!, I'm so lucky I kept my sanity through this horrid plight! I have no body hair, or back or arm hair, and my facial hair never really grew either!  HRT starts in July so i won't have to worry about any more masculinization of the body! Oh thats probably the only difference since I admited this problem to my girlfriend, wanting to start as fast as possible, trying to deminish T in anyway possible!
But to the question, the only part of me I find really bad is my voice, I hope that I can sort that out eventually! And maybe hips, but if I put on some weight when hormones start I should be ok!
Hugs, Christine.


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mac1

Top three - all very important & desirable.

1. Loss of male appendage - female genitals would be nice.
2. Have nice breasts.
3. Elimination of facial & body hair.
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Snöfrost

Fat fat fat fat fat...I need more bodyfat, espcecially on my hips, buttocks and legs. But it's hopeless.

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MichelleZelda

Face
Feet
Voice
Fat
Body/facial hair
Skin

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HeatherR

My fat belly and my voice... those two things cause me daily grief.
The obstacles of your past can become the gateways that lead to new beginnings.  ~Ralph Blum~



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MelloYellowSurge

I'm pre-transition so for me it would be the following in (roughly) this order:

1) Body hair - It's worse on my face because I seem to have a shadow right after I'm done shaving my face. I also seem to grow hair everywhere else on my body at too rapid a rate for my liking. I also find myself a bit on edge about shaving my legs seeing as I have psoriasis on my knees. For now, I suspect I'm going to have to figure out the right kind of foundation to apply to my face. On the bright side, at least the hair on top of my head grows pretty fast too.

2) Fat and Muscle - For as long as I can remember, I've had this fugly beer belly that I'm afraid is going to leave me with a muffin top whenever I try on a skirt or a pair of jeans and I try to tuck in the top I'm wearing. I'm hoping HRT helps me there. I'm also not a fan of how big the upper part of my legs are and yet at the same time I seem to have no butt. Hopefully HRT helps me here too. I'll avoid going any further than that lest this become a dissertation on how much I don't like my far and muscle distribution.

3) Breasts - Despite how well this ties into the second one, I suspect that starting in my 30's won't leave me with a lot of growth in that department. I'd like to have C cup breasts but I suspect I'll be lucky just to pull off B's without implants once on HRT. I guess we'll see what happens once I've started.
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VivianB

For me it would be

1. Body hair. I am really hairy and I really hate it.
2. Breasts I would like to have C cup breasts.
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