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Today i completely through stereotypes out the window!

Started by Midnightstar, April 05, 2016, 02:33:34 PM

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Midnightstar

A couple nights ago I was actually worried that because my father caught me painting my nails even though i consider myself a guy, i worried they would never take me seriously.
I don't know what it was that hit my mindset I don't know what started all I know is that I
have for a long time always wanted to dye my hair pink or purple. Even though I was scared of the assumptions that would be made by family and friends I immediately just said I already messed up enough. And instead of thinking about it but never actually going through with that I finally went through with it! :) My hair is cut in a masculine style with purple/lilacish color. It's really interesting how I was terrified about what people would think about me and I get this done and realized I actually look more masculine and I feel a lot more brave for doing not only what I had done but for literally being myself. I felt like telling this I know it's more story but I think it's important to note that if  you're doubting/scared you can overcome your fears. You never know you might end up more confident.  (This goes for anyone)
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arice

Good for you!

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Elis

Good news; I'm so so happy for you :). I would love to someday dye my hair pink with platinum blond but I don't think future employers would like that  ::).
I really want to get my ears repierced but I'm too nervous of what my dad will think. I may just go for it after all.
They/them pronouns preferred.



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Midnightstar

Quote from: Elis on April 05, 2016, 02:41:05 PM
Good news; I'm so so happy for you :). I would love to someday dye my hair pink with platinum blond but I don't think future employers would like that  ::).
I really want to get my ears repierced but I'm too nervous of what my dad will think. I may just go for it after all.
I say go for it!
it's about nobody but you :)
who knows, you might really like it.
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Elis

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I say go for it!
it's about nobody but you :)
who knows, you might really like it.

Thanks :). Did your dad say anything?
They/them pronouns preferred.



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Midnightstar

Quote from: Elis on April 05, 2016, 03:01:04 PM
Thanks :). Did your dad say anything?
He didn't really comment so i don't know what he thinks
i think they just assume i look really crazy but besides that whatever but it wasn't bashing me
and he still liked it.
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KarlMars

Maybe he was just surprised. You don't fear him getting violent or anything do you?

Midnightstar

Quote from: alienbodybuilder on April 05, 2016, 04:18:34 PM
Maybe he was just surprised. You don't fear him getting violent or anything do you?
Nah, not on that i just feared the outcome
it was fine in the end and everything.
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KarlMars

Quote from: Midnightstar on April 05, 2016, 06:56:00 PM

Nah, not on that i just feared the outcome
it was fine in the end and everything.

Glad to hear it was fine!

Rebecca

Good for you.

You only get one life and you can spend it any way you please but you can only spend it once.

Enjoy ☺
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