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Help me choose a FFS doctor for an Asian face!

Started by shoko, December 16, 2015, 03:46:41 PM

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shoko

Quote from: Laura_7 on April 06, 2016, 05:36:55 PM
Yes of course.

Could it have been an internal mixup, like wrong notes ?

Do you have an idea how they usually handle requests for revisions ?


*hugs*

I have no idea :(  I expected at least an offer but was not given one

But it's not possible to be mixed up when I spoke with the surgeon the day before and the morning of surgery.  Absolutely not
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Laura_7

Hm well you could talk to them ...
making a few points clear ...
what your expectations were and that a waiting time does not change size ...
and that you would expect an offer ...
you might tell them you would keep it confidential ... but that you clearly stated what you expected...

*hugs* and hope they come around
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shoko

Quote from: Laura_7 on April 06, 2016, 06:21:51 PM
Hm well you could talk to them ...
making a few points clear ...
what your expectations were and that a waiting time does not change size ...
and that you would expect an offer ...
you might tell them you would keep it confidential ... but that you clearly stated what you expected...

*hugs* and hope they come around

Thanks.  They stopped emailing after saying wait 3 months.  I have to live with this face in the meantime
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jhulyglow

Quote from: shoko on April 06, 2016, 04:47:22 PM
I'm only unhappy with the rhinoplasty and lip lift (so far, the rest I think will turn out well). 

I do not like rhinoplasty Facial . I've read many complaints it on Facebook groups. Brazilian colleagues needed redoing . I believe it is because of justification of naturalness
FFS -Frontoplasty: 13th of November 2014 - Dr. Maggio, Buenos Aires - Argentina.
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shoko

Quote from: jhulyglow on April 08, 2016, 03:09:28 PM
I do not like rhinoplasty Facial . I've read many complaints it on Facebook groups. Brazilian colleagues needed redoing . I believe it is because of justification of naturalness

Can you link me to these Facebook groups?
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jhulyglow

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Quote from: shoko on April 08, 2016, 03:28:53 PM
Can you link me to these Facebook groups?
Yes. I can. Facebook group that talks about FFS is in Portuguese language. But there are participants who talks English ...https://www.facebook.com/groups/ffs.transex.brasil/?ref=bookmarks




FFS -Frontoplasty: 13th of November 2014 - Dr. Maggio, Buenos Aires - Argentina.
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jhulyglow

FFS -Frontoplasty: 13th of November 2014 - Dr. Maggio, Buenos Aires - Argentina.
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Laura_7

Quote from: jhulyglow on April 08, 2016, 10:41:32 PM
It's right now? I am learning. thanks

You can have texts and complete websites translated there.
Just enter in the left field a text or a link to a website.
On the right you can choose output language.

wish you much fun


*hugs*
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shoko

Just want to update at 3 months post-op:

The endotines are still palpable and causing some pain, in addition to the expected shooting pains along my scalp.  It's still overall numb but should get better.  The bothersome part is having an itch and not being able to scratch it out because it's numb.

My jaw and chin are settled much better, but the chin feels very tight and I hope that loosens up.

The tracheal shave scar is still very visible but less raised.

I have applied rose musk oil and dermatix silicone gel religiously to all scars (neck and lip lift).

My nose bothers me a lot.  There is a piece of cartilage protruding from right to left inside the nose which constantly irritates me.  When I shift my face the nose clicks back and forth as though it is not aligned internally.  My nostrils are not symmetrical, and there is a bump on the left side of my nose.  Again, the tip is taller than I had wanted.  I have sent pictures to FT already about this and it's unnecessary for me to post them again here.

The lip lift scar, despite religious care, is still highly visible and not hidden at all.  A proper lip lift has the scar hidden inside the nostrils.  This was not done, and in fact is not even symmetrical.  There is an adhesion on the left side of the scar, which is difficult to cover properly with make up as it is raised.

I have seen multiple consultations with surgeons here in Los Angeles / Beverly Hills and they all agree a lot has to be done to fix the nose and excise the lip lift scar.  But I'm afraid that will dramatically shorten my philtrum.  I am also not able to revise the nose until next year obviously.  And there is no procedure I can do to fix the internal protrusion of cartilage that is driving me crazy.

Hair is starting to grow at the transplant sites but not evenly and not so well at the corners (yet).

I was promised a Skype consultation at 3 months but so far have not been contacted to schedule one.  They are very aware how unhappy I am, and this should have been a priority for them knowing a patient is unhappy.

I honestly don't know if I would have been treated better if I had disclosed that I am a physician and work with many plastic surgeons here in Los Angeles.  Honestly I don't care that much that Drs. Simon and Capitan never saw or spoke to me again after surgery (which is unusual in any case), but Dr. Bellinga needed to address my concerns which he has not.  At this point I am going to be out another $20k USD to fix his incompetence.  I don't care how much he sweet talks he is NOT a competent surgeon at all and don't let anyone try to convince you otherwise.  If he had the courtesy to at least address my issues I probably would give him a chance but at this point there is nothing he can do short of refunding my money.

If I could do it all over again I would either have gone to Dr. Harrison Lee or just had the procedures done without rhinoplasty and lip lift.
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Paula1

Hi Shoko,

As I said before I am sorry to hear of your woes.

With the benefit of hindsight, perhaps it would have been better not to post your dissatisfaction on an open forum which might ( and I say might ) have not exactly improved your relationship with Facial Team.

But it is your right to do so, of course.

Unfortunately they are unable to respond to your complaints on an open forum so we only hear your side of the story.

By saying this, I am not saying that what you tell us is untrue but I would like to know their side of events before making any judgement.

Every surgeon has a bad day and that is all of our concerns before going into the operating theatre.

I have never heard of a lip lift being done inside the nostrils but I might be wrong.

Dr Zukowski did mine under the nose and nostrils in 2004 and the scarring was minimal and same again this time with Dr Bellinga.

Everybody heals differently and I sincerely hope that you are not a poor healer and scar badly because that would be terrible.

I sincerely hope that your concerns are addressed one way or another to your satisfaction in the future.

Take care

Paula

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EmilyMK03

Shoko, sorry to hear about how things turned out.  I have a good friend in real life who had FFS with Facial Team, and she is very happy with the results.

I also have 2 other good friends in real life who had FFS with Dr. Zukowski, and they're also very happy with how things turned out.  Personally, I too had FFS with Dr. Zukowski (just a rhinoplasty) just 5 months ago, and I love how I look now.

I'm Asian (Korean).  And one of my friends who had FFS (which included rhinoplasty) with Dr. Zukowski is also Asian (Chinese).  So if you're considering any nose revisions, you may want to consider consulting with Dr. Zukowski.  I think he's really good at doing Asian noses.
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